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No transfer 😢

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So whilst I was having acupuncture this morning before transfer my husband received the dreaded phone call from the embryologist saying all 7 embryos were only at day 3 despite them being on day 5. They’ve not stopped developing so they will push them to tomorrow and give me a call and let me know what they’re doing, put it this way I don’t hold much hope. So whatever happens no pupos for me this month. We are just beside ourselves. I was wailing in Harley Street looking like a maniac! So now what’s next? I don’t understand what’s going wrong. I’m just so very sad 😔

UPDATE

The embryologist has just phoned and there is one fighter that has turned to a blastocyst, so they will see what it looks like tomorrow, and if it looks good they will freeze it, tense is not the word!!!

Thank you for your lovely support ladies xxxx

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Tugsgirl

I’m sorry. This is so harsh 😞 I hope they pick up the pace! 🤞 xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you lovely, I just don’t know what else we can do?!?! Xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Aleelilook

I know 😞 You’ve done your best and that’s all you can do xx

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Cinderella5

Oh Im so sorry! Completely understand how you feel, I didnt even get to transfer first time. No advice, just sending love and massive hugs xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you lovely, just feel bloody hopeless xx

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Mrsgled1982

Im so sorry. I cant say i know what you are going through but sending virtual hugs. Lots of love xx

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Aleelilook in reply to Mrsgled1982

Thank you so much xx

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E_05

I’m so sorry to read this, keeping everything crossed for you that tomorrow will bring positive news xx

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Aleelilook in reply to E_05

Ah thank you lovely xx

in reply to Aleelilook

So sorry to hear this, sending u hugs and keeping everything crossed thar u get better news tomorrow x

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Amanda86

Oh gosh I'm so sorry to hear this, I hope they'll have picked up with growing by tomorrow. Got everything crossed!

Sending a big hug your way xxx

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Aleelilook in reply to Amanda86

Thank you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

So sorry hun. Keeping everything crossed for you sending you a big hug too 💗🤗😘

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Aleelilook in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you xxxx

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Aleelilook

Girls you’re all wonderful, thank you so much for your kindness, it’s amazing the support we get xxxx

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cryst4l

Try and stay positive as hard as it is, you just never know what will happem between now and tomorrow x

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Squeak2

Massive hugs xx

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry. Don’t loose hope yet. Keep calm xxx ❤️

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Peppy26

That's so distressing for you. Sending lots of hugs and prayers. 🙏 xx

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WaywardGirl

So sorry to read this. Sending hugs and positive vibes for those little ones to pick up xx

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Sprinkles86

Oh I’m so sorry you must be so upset. Fingers crossed for good news tomorrow, sending you a massive hug xxxx

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bumpkin

We had exactly the same. It's a horrible phone call when your so excited about the transfer. We got the call the next day to say they were able to freeze two so fingers crossed for you xx

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Aleelilook in reply to bumpkin

Thank you, it’s just unbelievable! Xx

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply to Aleelilook

I’m so sorry to hear this. What’s the reason for them freezing it rather than popping it back?

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Aleelilook in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Well as it’s day 6 today they say the uterus is out of sync now and the embryo won’t recognise it! Xx

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply to Aleelilook

Oh dear. I’m so sorry.

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