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Hi everyone. Yesterday morning i tested and got a bfn. Ive had the worst cramps ever last night that i couldnt even stand. I took painkillers and cried myself to sleep as ive already given up. Today morning i had no cramps at all but now on my right ovary i have slight twinges, slight nausea and sore boobs with one of them leaking (sorry tmi). I went to the bathroom and i wiped i had small amount of blood. Since then nothing. This was my second cycle on clomid. I haven't mentioned it to my OH as i dont want him to feel rubbish about it. Were away on holiday so i dont want to ruin it. We have our appointment with the clinic in a few weeks time to see what the next step is. Sorry for rambling on xx

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Hannah_J

Hey hun, maybe it's just your body reaction. Did you have a noticeable amount of red blood? If not, then don't give up beforehand. As I understand, your otd is on Wednesday, so it's normal to have a bfn. Some even receive their bfps a couple of days post their due date. Or did the same happen during your first cycle? I suppose there's nothing to worry about yet, so enjoy your time! Good luck to you!

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Naz82 in reply to Hannah_J

Thanks for your reply Hannah_l. First cycle i had a normal period and im going to hold off testing aslong as af doesn't show her face.

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Tugsgirl

Don’t give up. I know it’s hard. Please try to enjoy the rest of your holiday xx

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Chloegreenkiwi

It’s normal to feel it’s all over but cramps and a little bleeding can actually be a good sign. Hang on in there!

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Rubinaa

Stay strong sweetie, cramps, twinges, spotting, sore boobs are all good signs... don't give up please but as you are on holidays please be very careful with everything you do and relax loads... just another few days then test on the cheapie internet HPT as they detect low HCG levels... good luck

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Naz82 in reply to Rubinaa

Hi Rubinaa thanks for your reply. This morning i wiped and had red spotting with nothing on pad. Still having nausea. I usually suffer from really bad period pains but at the moment nothing. Im confused

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Rubinaa in reply to Naz82

This could be implantation bleed which normally only shows with wiping as it's not really much, I remember this happened to me twice and each time it started with wiping only, if I wiped harder it stained more. Many women have had implantation bleed in the same way. Keep your fingers crossed, don't go in water, no swimming, don't eat any raw meats for the time being. Keep us posted l. 😄

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Rubinaa in reply to Naz82

When is your official test date?

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Naz82 in reply to Rubinaa

Wednesday

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Rubinaa in reply to Naz82

Good luck and relax loads 🍀🍀🍀🍀

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