My most recent update!

[Beebeestar]

Hi Guys, I have not posted in months... I’m just writing to update following my BFN back in Feb. After my follow up they decided to do a hycosy and discovered I had some adhesions due to a previous surgery to remove a fibroid, which they expected could have been the reason for failure.

I’ve since had two surgeries to remove them, one in May and the latest one being in September. I’ve had to wait 9 weeks for a follow up after surgery to get an all clear. I’m finally going in Monday to check if it’s clear.

They said the adhesions were not bad, but I don’t understand why I’ve needed two surgeries, but you never seem to get answers!!

It has just been another stumbling block to our fertility journey!

I suppose looking at it positively, that maybe at least there was a bit of a reason for the first failure. I’m just now concerned that they can correct it. 2 surgeries later, I really hope it’s going to be a good story on Monday...

Anyway just wanted to update you all. I’ve been following all of you in silence and I continue to wish you all strength on your journeys.

If anyone is going/gone through the same thing, I would love to hear your stories...

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Beebeestar. Just hoping all has gone/went well today for you, and you get the go ahead to have some treatment/IVF. Thinking of you. Diane

[Beebeestar in reply to DianeArnold]

Hi Diane, thank you for your kind message. You sent this message as I was walking through the ACU doors, so it was lovely to see.

They said I can start my FET on my next period which will be the end of this month.

They did not check the status of my adhesions this time, so they must be confident they got it all at the surgery (or at least I hope)

I probably would have felt more comfortable if they had checked, so I have to trust they must be happy.

I’m really excited for the next stage though, so fingers crossed 🤞

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Beebeestar]

Hi Beebeestar. Well that all sounds encouraging. As you say, you must have been tidied up good inside to be able to give you the go ahead for your FET. Not long to wait until your little frostie is back inside you where he/she belongs. Hope all goes well and I shall be thinking of you. Diane