So despite a 2nd try of medical management and another 3 lots of tablets my body doesn’t seem to want to let go of our little angel.
Just seen the doctor who said they think surgery is the best option due to risk of infection, I really didn’t want this option but I’m not sure I can stand any more waiting. They’ve said I can be put on the emergency waiting list so hopefully it’ll be this week.
I am well and truly exhausted 😭
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Thinking about you and praying for you. I had surgery twice for 2 of my losses. Surgery doesn't last very long. You will likely get home the same day. It is just horrible that you have had to wait so long. I really feel for you. Such a difficult time. Take care.xo
Thank you, I never wanted surgery and if I’m honest still don’t that’s why it’s taken so long but I know I don’t have any option now. Sorry for your losses xx
So sorry it isn't working out how you'd wanted but you can't go on any longer like this physically or mentally. This is for the best. You are at risk of an infection. PM if you have any questions about surgery and aftermath etc. I am more than happy to help as I have been in your position before unfortunately.xo
I'm so sorry dear. You have really tried, I can't imagine the pain you have bee through with those medicines. Let's hope everything goes well with the surgery or maybe baby decides to come out before the surgery.
Sorry to hear this. I know it's not what you wanted but with the surgery it will be done quickly and you'll know everything that needs to come out will. X
You may not feel strong and that’s understandable but from someone else’s perspective, your resilience and strength is so admirable. I hope to read a future post from you with happy news that you do deserve x
Three weeks ago I was at this point. Baby’s heartbeat stopped. 2rounds of medication and nothing happened. I did a D&C to evacuate. Oh for the pain. The pain and the pain. Mental pain. Physical pain. I’m only getting through it.
Thinking about you today as you have surgery. Such a sad and shocking time for you. Rest plenty and take time to recover. Hope you are getting lots of support from e.g. close family. Take care. I am here if you need to talk and so is everyone else on this forum.xo
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