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3rd transfer (fourth cycle) - game over

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Hey all,

Just a quick message to say that unfortunately I got a bfn. My test day was Saturday but I caved and did a test on day 7 and 9 (swore to myself I wouldn't, but no willpower!) so I was prepped for a bad result. It's been a hard four or five days. I felt shattered - like I'd been in a physical fight. I have done a lot of burying my head in work, napping, going for long walks with my hubbie when we've had the energy and now bit by bit I'm feeling a little brighter and resigned to this crazy world! I've got an appointment to see my consultant at the end of the month. No idea what they'll say but trying to focus on a few weeks off from it all. Thanks everyone for all the support I've had on here over the last couple of months. It's been a huge help. Thinking of others in the same situation as me but also of those who got the result they were after, who give some hope. And also of those who have decided the time has come to move on from ivf. It's a hard journey for us all.....xxx

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pinto8

I'm so sorry for you hun can't say I understand what you are feeling but sending you big hugs

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Littledee88

Sorry to hear this thinking of u. Life can be so cruel at times. Sending u hugs take care of urself. Xx

Big hugs x

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Dream32

I'm so sorry to hear this 😞

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Fredaflintstone

Sorry to hear this. Sending you hugs x

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MissyR

Thank you all.

So sorry to hear this send you a big hug xx

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kelsbels88

I’m so sorry to hear this x take care of yourself and come back stronger xx

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Sunshine09

So sorry to read this, thinking of you it is such a rough journey, sending loads of love n hugs ❤️💋💋

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Hannah143

So sorry to hear your sad news, 😪. Take some time to heal and rebuild your strength. In time you will be able to decide what you guys do next. Sending you big hugs xx

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