Had a bit of rubbish day. Feel...

[Dow18]

Had a bit of rubbish day. Feeling sorry for myself. My next door neighbour had her baby this morning. Just wished that was us. I have to come off Facebook as too many people are having babies. I'm not usually like this. Has anybody else felt like this. 😑😑

[7AVA]

Yes, I’ve felt like this loads - just read the posts on my page! We all feel like this from time to time on here. Fingers crossed our time will come xxx

[Murfster]

Yep! Can’t look at pregnant women or babies sometimes. Sometimes it makes me cry......I just have to believe that if we keep going we will get lucky.....at some point! Xxxxx

[Mothie]

Have felt like this a lot, just seems so easy for some people and the hardest thing in the world for others. I went off Facebook for the same reason. Hang in there xxx

[ZigZag90]

I feel like this all the time. I sometimes feel bad for feeling that way but then tell myself that it's perfectly natural and understandable and we're all allowed to feel like this when we're going trough this emotional roller coaster.

I too came off Facebook a couple of months ago (mainly because of the baby announcements but also because people generally frustrate me on Facebook) and I have to say I feel much better since. There are of course always reminders around me of what I want so badly but at least it isn't constantly in my face every time I'm on my phone. I don't feel that I miss Facebook at all, it's quite refreshing really (as I was definitely someone who was constantly scrollling through the News Feed before!!)

I really hope you start feeling a bit better soon but remember that you are completely allowed to have a moan and a rant at times like this and it is perfectly natural.

Do something special for yourself this week.

Xx

[Littledee88]

I deleted my facebook back in February it was all getting too much for me and I would get upset and argue with my husband because he has a vasectomy and had it reversed and has a low sperm count I know it's not his fault if he knew his first marriage would fail and he would met me and would want to start a family with me he would never have had it done. I dream sometimes that I will open my facebook back up and after the birth of my long hoped for baby and tell everyone my story and struggles I have came up against. It's nice to dream and hope just hope it comes true for me and all u lovely ladies too. 💗xx

[Louiseclaire1975]

I feel the same can’t look at babies or pregnant woman Facebook makes me worse all baby announcements few days ago I just sat here and cried just all gets to me sometimes we seeing fertility clinic Evie was our 3rd baby almost 4 years ago x I’m sure we will all get our dream one day xx 💕💕

[kelsbels88]

Aww Hun bless you, this was me last week Facebook is gone. I find I don’t cope very well emotionally.

It is strange as you have good days and bad days. The announcements tend to be my undoing then I too will think why can’t it be me.

I can’t say really that it gets easier I don’t think it does but you become more resilient and then each more doesn’t hurt quite so much xx

sending hugs, thinking of you xx

[Music1]

Absolutely. I had to delete/ hide quite a few people on FB as it got too much and I'd end up seriously depressed. I even find it difficult walking around shopping centres and supermarkets to be honest. If I see young children with a family or a baby I keep thinking "that should have been me" etc. My mum had me when she was 32 and I keep punishing myself for waiting to try till I was 37 - didn't realise it would be such a problem and game over. It's heartbreaking - I totally get it. Keep yourself busy or at least away from the neighbours and you know what. I have days when I get emotional and don't want to even go out the door. Delete whatever doesn't make you happy to look at or read about xxx

[Lilli79]

I think we all get those feelings sometimes, I haven't been back to my home town in ages because I don't want to see all my old friends moaning about their kids and how stressed and tired they are. Man, would I love to be in that position, lol! I think honestly I also get tired of people giving me 'advice' - just get drunk, it'll happen! or you just have to stop thinking about it, and it will happen. Gets on my goat sometimes, I'm usually not like this either so please don't feel like you're alone xx