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Sorry but having a woe is me day.

Today is the day I am admitted for my procedure tomorrow to stop blood supply to second twin. It's nerve wracking enough thinking of the procedure tomorrow morning but am so scared about the scan today too, it's been a week since last scan and there was already fluid on the heart, am so worried about little bean and his/her poor heart. Just wish I could be put to sleep until it's all done and be woke up being told everything is ok.

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Fredaflintstone

Hoping all is ok with your scan and the operation. Such a hard time for you. Will be thinking of you all. You will be in the best hands. Big hugs strength and courage brave lady xxx

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London7

I hope you have lots of people giving you big hugs. Of course you are scared. It is scary. But the statistics you posted the other day are really positive, so try to hold onto that. And you and your baby are in the very best of hands. I'm thinking of you and sending lots of virtual hugs. Xx

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CountryCat

You are very much in my thoughts xx

I think anyone would be surprised if you weren't scared, the unknown is always terrifying, but the professionals know what they are doing. This procedure has the best chance of a positive outcome for both you and your little one. Wishing you much strength at this difficult time.

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stephanienissim

Good luck. I don't know what words to use to encourage You, but I wish you strength, and love. xxxxxx

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Cinderella5

Just wanted to say I'll be thinking of you tomorrow! I hope it all goes well!xx

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Tugsgirl

Wishing you so much luck 🍀 Update us when you can xx

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Daxi16

Good luck lovely I will keep you in my thoughts. Keep us updated best of luck xxx

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E_05

Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow x

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C_L_A_I_R_E

Wishing you lots of luck. You and your baby are in the best of care! Sending lots of hugs 🍀🤞🏻❤️

Will be thinking of you lovely - I can't even begin to imagine how hard this is for you. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and hoping all will go ok for the scan & procedure tomorrow. Lots of love xxxx

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Leesara

You will be in my thought..., stay strong oxo

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_MrsC

Oh Sweetie! I am so sorry you're going through such a stressful time. I will continue to pray for you and little bean. You are in my thoughts and I truly wish the best for you. xxx

Will be thinking of you tomorrow xxx

Good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you x

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Oakey80

Hiya hun, just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. Sorry you have to go through this...hope it all goes well xxx

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Mrsjj

Such a tough scenario I can't even imagine but you will find the strength somehow for your other baby and got through it. Lots of love xx

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