So As hubby and I start this ivf journey, I have asked him to stop vaping as I am worried that the clinics (both nhs and private) will not allow us ivf if one smokes - is this true? It has been 2 days since he has stopped vaping but he is totally withdrawn from me, really down, wants to be on his own, stay in bed, and hardly talking to me. He says he needs time for a while as he goes through this difficult period and to bare with him. I am proud of him for doing this for us but please can anybody help suggest what I can do to help or what he can do to help with this process. He has his semen analysis next wk and I just want him to be ready for that smoke free etc. Has anybody else been in similar situations?