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The dream is over.πŸ’”

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It seems my happy ending was not ment to be this time.

My little embie has gone.

On Wednesday afternoon I had Brown spotting which stopped temporarily I thought it was just a bit of late implantation bleeding but today it came back and changed to red blood. I tested and it came back negative.

I'm going to stop the pessaries as there is no point in dragging out the process.

Life can be so cruel at times, but it's things like this that makes us stronger and more determined to succeed next time.

Good luck and lots of love to everybody where every they are on the roller coaster of ivf.

Lynsay xxx

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bluewanderlust

Oh dear I am so very sorry to hear this, I know you must be heartbroken. How far into your 2WW are you, have you called your clinic for some advice? Sending you big hugs xxxx

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E8989

I'm so sorry sending all my love πŸ’•πŸ’• x

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Hormomalmess

Sorry to see this. Big hugs xx

So sorry to hear this, look after yourselves xxx

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-noodles-

i'm so sorry to hear - this is such a horribly, cruel process.

amazing you are thinking positively already - you're a strong lady.

be kind to yourself xx

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_MrsC

Hi Lynsay. I'm so sorry to read your post. Life is very cruel indeed. Know I'm thinking of you at such a difficult time. xxx

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stephanienissim

Oh so sorry. Wishing you luck, big hugs and lots of love xxxxxx

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Rainbow_86

I know words can't help... but I am keeping you in my thoughts. I am so so sorry x

So so sorry for this sad news x sometimes things just aren't to be . The same happened to me and it is so devastating. Please stay stong and your dreams will come true 😊

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Kelly-03

So sorry to hear this, it is cruel and hopefully one day it will be the most amazing day of your life. Keep going and keep hoping xx

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Cinderella5

So, so sorry!! It's crap having this outcome!!xx

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Mrsgled1982

Thanks for your kind words everyone.

I don't know what our next move will be but I definitely know we will be trying again. Maybe do some research on a private clinic etc as this was our funded one but I feel comfortable going forward with our current one as a private patient.

Xxx

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Jaky76

So sorry to read this.. Big hugs xxx πŸ’‹

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Tugsgirl

Sorry 😞 xx

So sorry to hear this. Take care xx

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Fredaflintstone

Sorry to hear this. It's so difficult to deal with. We had a failed cycles dit hurt so much but we began to feel better reasonably soon and now have a ok. I'm place for another round. Look after yourself. Sending you hugs and wishes of luck for the future xxx

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Macca13

So sorry to hear this. Look after yourselves xx

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cls37

Hey, I am so sorry. I think I am in the same boat, I've been bleeding heavily since Thursday! I've been told to continue my my pessaries but I can see a reason why. This time last week we had just had our little embryo transferred πŸ˜₯ feeling heartbroken at the moment but I know I need to pick myself up! Sending you a hug xxx

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Mrsgled1982

I'm spending today having me time. Had my nails done eating lots of chocolate. And having runny egg yolks for breakfast.

I'm made of strong stuff as all us ivf ladies are.

Love to you all xx

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lauren-jade13

Just to let you know the exact same thing has happened to me. I started spotting on Thursday, tested negative on Friday so stopped the pessaries and I'm now having my period.

It's the most heartbreaking feeling in the world and I cannot stop crying. But reading your post made me feel less alone.

Thank you. Xxx

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It's so horrible I've been bleeding heavily since Thursday.... test day isn't until next Friday!!! But I'm not hopeful x

Sorry to read this lovely xxxx

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