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Hello girls!

What questions did you ask when you went for your consultation?!

I have my first one tomorrow and my mind has failed me! I had so many questions at first and now i just cant think :|

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lauren3189

Hello i am waiting for my consultation so sorry can't be more help but wanted to say good luck x

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Rubidge in reply tolauren3189

Oh no problem! ill let you know how it goes :) how far into everything are you? x

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lauren3189 in reply toRubidge

Omg just come home they have sent a letter of appointment change its now next week to see the consultant. Feel worried x

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Rubidge in reply tolauren3189

Oooh exciting! when was it supposed to be?x

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lauren3189 in reply toRubidge

January so you can imagine how rubbish I felt. I feel really nervous I think because I know it's a male fertility problem I'm scared they will say we can't do anything xx

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Rubidge in reply tolauren3189

Ahh well least its happening quicker!

No im sure you will be fine there is loads they can do, if its a low sperm count or not great sperm im sure they can pick out the best ones and actually insert that sperm into the egg there is loads try not to worry yourself too much!Xx

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lauren3189 in reply toRubidge

Thank you hun please will you update us on how it goes tomorrow. I never know what to expect. I guess question wise will depend on what outcome it is 😣 xx

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E_05

Just wanted to wish you lots of luck for tomorrow! I'd already been having treatment before I started IVF so the main things I wanted to know was how long before I could start and the general process. I remember feeling excited to be finally told IVF was now the best option, I know it sounds crazy but I always knew this would be our path.

I think take the appointment as it comes, they'll understand your anxious. I was given a lot of paperwork to take away xx

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Rubidge in reply toE_05

Do you know that is exactly how I felt, I knew this is what was going to happen I also in school remember thinking about an ectopic pregnancy and had this mad feeling it would happened and that unfortunately happened as well!

Having a mini melt down this evening crying about everything and feeling pretty low!

I know I should be happy but at the moment I just don't know how to feel 😭

I've put disneys tangled on to get out of the real world for a bit!x

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E_05 in reply toRubidge

Oh so sorry to hear all you've already been through. I think that's understandable feeling low but try to keep positive for today 🙂

You can't beat a bit of Disney, I think it's important in this journey to have films that you can watch but don't really need to follow if you get what i mean.

Good luck for your apt xx

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lauren3189 in reply toRubidge

Aww sorry you are feeling low. Good luck for today another step forward :-)

Let us know how it goes x

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ClarabGlasgow

We have first apt today too! I have a list of questions like when is acupuncture most effective , key dates so I can pencil time out in work calendar, whether they do a trial run of the ET & a few other things about the actual process & what that clinic offers. Hope that helps & good luck x

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