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[AmyA19]

Morning lovelies,

I got a negative test this morning. Not entirely surprised as was not hopeful all along. So now I'm totally out of the NHS game (as my 1 fresh cycle failed and we had nothing to freeze to do further FET) so I'd like to know what I do now in terms of researching a private clinic. We're in a London borough and had been travelling into Kings for this cycle. Any tips or advice would be welcome. Thanks xx

[_MrsC]

So sorry for your bfn. I'm not quite in your position yet but may be in 2 weeks. I just wanted to wish you well in looking for a new clinic. xxx

[AmyA19 in reply to _MrsC]

Thank you and good luck for your 2ww! I hope you don't end up in the same position as me. 🤞🤞

[Fredaflintstone]

Sorry to hear that. It's heart breaking I know - we got ours on Monday 😢. I'll pm you about our clinic. Take it easy and be kind to yourself. The next couple of days will be hard but it will get easier. I've arranged to see the clinics counsellor to help process it all. Xx

[Hopeful16 in reply to Fredaflintstone]

Hi Freda sorry to badge in on ur post, pls I would like 2 know about it clinic too. Got a bfn this morning, I can't process anything but would be grateful for clinic recommendations. Xx

[Fredaflintstone in reply to Hopeful16]

Sorry to hear that hopeful - it's so heart breaking. Is it your OTD? I'll send you the details. Look after yourself and bog hugs to you and amt17 xxx

[_MrsC in reply to Hopeful16]

Sorry to hear about your bfn Hopeful. Thinking of you. x

[Tw1986]

So sorry to here this hun 😢 I'm gob smacked I don't know what to say but I'm thinking of you xxx

[AmyA19 in reply to Tw1986]

Thank you lovely 😙 xx

[Hopeful16]

Same here sending hugs ur way

[Tw1986 in reply to Hopeful16]

Sorry to here your sad news to hun xxx

[AmyA19 in reply to Hopeful16]

Thank you and I'm sorry you're in the same position as me. Sending lots of love xxx

[Rosalietea]

So sorry to hear your sad news. I do hope you're looking after yourself x

Have you tried looking up the HFEA website? Otherwise I'm sure the ladies here will have lots of advice. I have had quite a negative experience with my clinic. I'm paying privately for an NHS hospital unit but tbh I wouldn't recommend them to anyone even though I've had a BFP this time.

[AmyA19 in reply to Rosalietea]

Thank you for your response. I'll spend some time on the HFEA website later I think! I'm sorry you had a tough time with your clinic but pleased you got a positive. Hope everything continues to go well for you xx

[Rosalietea in reply to AmyA19]

Thank you x

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

[AmyA19 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. I hope everything is going well for you. Xxx

[Blondyboo]

Abroad clinics are cheaper and not as scary as you think .. So sorry to hear this though x

[AmyA19 in reply to Blondyboo]

Thank you. I have considered this but I'm teacher and it's been stressful enough taking apointments here never mind trying to organise time off to go abroad matching up with our holidays! 😂 But thank you xx

[Blondyboo in reply to AmyA19]

ah I see yes you have to go with your monthly periods so you cant pick dates unfortunately. Although would be do- able in the 6 weeks holiday? you can pick the month you want treatment.. just a thought x

[AmyA19]

Yes the 6 weeks would work but would have to be next year as have work commitments in the holidays coming up and I don't want to wait that long I don't think. But thank you xx