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Feel like its all over 5dp5dt

So ive seen many ladies at this point test and get faint positive-but for me absolutely nothing 😥 i have seen a couple of ladies also still get bfn at this point and later bfp but i just feel deep down it hasnt worked 😓 xx

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Hi Hope_4_2017x. It is quite understandable to feel like you do at this stage. Remember you have been through lots to get where you are, and the 2WW is just unbearable. Just try and keep busy until the correct test date, and obviously, I wish you huge success. Thinking of you. Diane

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Thanks Diane, im just feeling so scared it hasnt worked and hubby doesnt get why my mood has suddenly nose dived when ive been so excited ☹xx

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Hi Hope_4_2017x Oh dear, the power of hormones! It can be a lonely,scary place where you are at the moment, even with a DH in tow. You're doing good, even if you feel you're not. Diane

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Thank you, its nice to hear im not abnormal ☺x

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Dear, don't have to get upset before the time. You know each organism is different, of course we are not protected from the failure but let's hope for the best.

I've got my first surrogate negative and I thought I would go crazy. I can't express my feelings at that time but we didn't give up. We decided to try one more time.

Is it your first time?

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Im so sorry to hear about your negative ☹ Yes this is my first cycle , trying my best to keep some hope xx

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it's ok, I accepted that. Thanks my clinic we started our second round, with frozen eggs. In 3 days I will know the result. My fingers and toes are crossed for the positive one. Frankly, I can't stand waiting, I'm going crazy a bit haha

don't worry, I believe one day you'll get the chance to hold your own baby

xxx

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Hun it's still very very early to test. Please don't feel negative about it. You've got a good few days left for your embie to get stronger and stronger. Try to hold on to that hope. xxx

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Thanks for your kind words, trying soo hard to stay positive 🤞xx

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Keep going lovely - I know it's hard...we all have our moments of doubt. Maybe try some positive relaxation/meditation (lots of IVF ones on YouTube) You can do this! Xxx

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I might try that, i definitely need something lol thanks xx

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Anytime - also find something you enjoy - hobby maybe? Colouring book, puzzle, a cheesy novel?...xxx

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Ive been reading all my grandmas old take a break mags and watching lots of judge rinder lol xx

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Hope all goes ok for you as the other lovely ladies have said try and stay positive there is nothing, much worse than the 2ww xx

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Thanks, yes its horrible 😓😓 xx

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It's to early sweet please don't give up 😘😘 xxx

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Im really trying, soo hard though 😗😗 xx

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