When's it going to happen to me? 😞

[Bec-A]

Been feeling really positive recently, my ivf consultation is in a month. But last few days been feeling really down again and unsure if it will even work. I feel gutted I opened Facebook this morning expecting loads of political chats but no, right at the top of my feed was yet another person announcing their pregnancy. I don't even know her that well but all my friends are liking and commenting. I can't even bring myself to like it, how mean is that? Agh literally running out of friends who aren't pregnant or have kids 😞Xxx

[Hope_4_2017x]

I know exactly how you feel, im constantly dreading another announcement too. It will be our turn soon 😀 xx

[Bec-A in reply to Hope_4_2017x]

I'm just feeling so shit. That and my family banging on about my sister finding out the sex of hers next week 😞 Spending my lunch time crying 😞 Xx

[Hope_4_2017x in reply to Bec-A]

Oh no so sorry to hear that people can be so thoughtless.. try and stay strong, it is such a difficult journey though xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Bec-A. Oh my poor girl! I think you're just going to have to be careful who you spend time with for the moment, and just skip quickly through Facebook, which can be difficult I know. Just think, it's not too far until your consultation and starting point, so focus on that as best as you can. I'm sure that when we all try so hard to have a family of our own, we seem to become a magnet for others to announce their pregnancies - not fair. But hey, we're tougher than that, so not too long now, and I wish you every success. Diane

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Hi just wanted to say I feel your pain especially with Facebook I unfollow everyone with pregnancy announcements I will have no friends on Facebook soon lol lol

Sending u hugs xx

[LiLi19]

Urgh, this just happened to me too...big hugs xx

On the plus side, as much as we all want these babies, at least we can still have care free fun until that happens...thats the only silver lining, I keep trying to tell myself xxx

[Tugsgirl]

Same here 😞 X

[lau_har1]

I know exactly how you feel.. I had a mc in March and am starting ivf next month, but since my mc 5 blooming friends have announced they're pregnant!! Obviously it's lovely news for people to share but can't help to feeling jealous, upset and angry every time I see an announcement.

Just got to think hopefully it'll be us announcing to the world about our wonderful news 🙏🏼 x