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The two week wait crazies...

It's been a week since our embryo transfer of a fully hatched blast and the two week wait crazies have officially hit! Crazy questions and thoughts going through my mind constantly... For example....

I've not bled so far this time, that means it will be a BFN... But I miscarried last time so maybe it's a BFP and it will be a sticky one?!

My boobs aren't sore, no wait, yes they are, no they're not (and on and on it goes....)

I don't FEEL pregnant.... I've been pregnant three times before and always felt I 'knew'... Maybe it's different this time, be quiet negative nelly thoughts!

Googling BFP at 7dp5dt.... Even though I know it's wayyyyyy too early to test!

Aaaaarrrrrghhh someone save me from my crazy brain πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Xxxxx

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aw, it's so difficult isn't it! You look out for every sign and worry about the twinges. Then you don't feel any twinges and worry about that too! There aren't any words of wisdom to give unfortunately other than try and keep busy without overdoing things and drink plenty of water. When's your test day? Mine was officially 11 days post transfer but that fell on a Sat so clinic brought it forward to Fri and I did a test Thu which was 9dp5dt. Wishing you lots of luck and hard as it is, try not to overthink xx

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I don't test til Tuesday πŸ™ˆ Driving myself bonkers! Took my dog to the vet yesterday to be neutered so the two of us are sat here, he's feeling very sorry for himself 😒 Xxx

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OMG, been there..... going through that! πŸ™ˆπŸ˜‚

We aren't getting treatment just now.

I have a blocked tube but can tell when I'm ovulating from the clear one. This month was the clear one and I've thought every single thought you mentioned. πŸ™ˆ

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It's crazy isn't it.... You know the thoughts are irrational but you still give in to them! I only have one tube and my doctor told me that the other tube can still collect from the side without a tube, so don't feel that the months you ovulate from the 'bad' side are a no go, there's always a chance the good tube will catch it 😊 Xxx

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This made me chuckle as I'm currently 4dp4dt and I'm already thinking and doing the same! πŸ˜‚

I went back to work the day after et in the hope that it would help time go quicker and distract me but it was fairly quiet and slow because of school hols so that didn't work πŸ˜’

I plan on keeping myself as busy as possible over the next 4 days to try and keep the crazy at bay but I've also decided to accept it's just a natural part of this rollercoaster we're on 😁 xx

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I booked the whole time off as we had my stepson since last Friday, but he is back with his mum now so the extra time is making me go loopy I think! I keep having mad thoughts like 'stuff it I'm going to go and buy like 5 first response tests and use them every day' then my sensible self kicks back in lol. When is your official test day? Xxx

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Free time is the enemy at the moment, haha, I can't say I'm being the most productive in work but my manager and colleagues know I'm going through this so they all know where my head is at.

Our otd is Sunday 21st but there is no way I'm going to last until then, especially as I still have about 3 clear blue/first response hpt's hiding away from before this journey - I swear they've started calling out to me 😲 xx

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Haha I have 2 CB Digis in the cupboard but I know they're not very sensitive so don't want to waste them! Hubby has agreed to test Monday.... See if I can wait that long xxx

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O Dear.... I totally understand, the wife was surprisingly a lot calmer

But me on the other hand, went loopy lol....lets hope all this craziness means a positive outcome. We are all drawn to google sadly lol

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Google really is wonderful and awful all at the same time! How is your wife doing now? Xx

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Totally agree.....She's doing well Sprinkles, thank you

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Great to hear, hope and pray the rest of the pregnancy is smooth sailing for you guys xx

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