It's here (this post is not intended to upset anyone)

It's here (this post is not intended to upset anyone)

The pretty little wooden box we ordered to bury our Babba bean has arrived. We specifically chose a cylindrical shape as that's what shape the hospital container is. I closed my eyes when I placed it in our pretty box. OH is out for a few hours today (I needed to let him go and do his own thing and unwind) but when he gets home we will see about laying our Babba to rest under the little tree we picked (if it stays dry this afternoon) Later (if we bury it this afternoon) I will play it the song that I played while it was growing in my belly. I will light a candle tonight.

Thank you all so much from the bottom of my heart for your support through the highs and lows xx

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  • Thinking of you. x

  • Beautiful!xx

  • So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you xx

  • Aw beautiful!!! Thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  • Im so sorry for your loss. Thinking about you during this time. Lots of love.

    M xxx

  • We have laid Babba to rest. Xx

  • My thoughts are with you both

  • Tugsgirl reading this breaks my heart, its so cruel that you and every single person on this site is battling something we have no control over. I will be thinking of you. Sending big hugs your way xxxx

  • Thinking of you and your partner. Lots of hugs xx

  • Beautiful! Xx

  • Beautiful - sending lots of love to you & your OH - take care xxx

  • Sending love and strength! πŸ’– X

  • What lovely things to do to remember ur baby..I will light a candle for u tonight too xx

  • I'm so touched. Thank you Vic xx

  • I have lit 2 candles, 1 for you and 1 for your baby xx

  • Omg thank you! 😒 Xx

  • That is beautiful. Thinking of you you will get there xx

  • Absolutely beautiful, thinking of you... xxxx

  • Lots of love and hugs xx

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  • Dear tugs . Sending ur little one love πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ Hope the lil beanie is at peace wherever they r.

  • RIP little one πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

  • I think it's beautiful and so appropriate. Thank you for sharing this xxx

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  • I'm pleased your baby is now home with you and you can have a special place where it can be and you can go xx I'm here if you need anything xx

  • Thank you Kelly xx

  • Thoughts are with you both tugs xxxx

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  • Oh Gosh Tugsgirl! I am so sorry for your loss. How devastating for you both. Life can be incredibly cruel at times. What a beautiful way to keep your Babba close to you both. Thinking of you. xxx

  • Thinking of you πŸ’•πŸ’•

  • Tugsgirl im so sorry you are having to go through this, no one should ever have to bury there child, I tried to reply last night but it wouldn't let me send as signal is rubbish at my house. I lit 3 candles last night, one for you, one for your man and one for your little baba who is now flying high around you both.

    I hope in time you will be able to start again and extend your family. Look after yourself.


  • That's truly lovely for you to think of the three of us. Thank you xx

  • My thoughts are with you and your OH and your little baby Tugsgirl. It's such a hard time for you. Take care of yourselves the best you can. xx

  • I am in awe of your strength and the support you are showing for everyone on here even with everything you are going through. I cant even imagine what you are both going through. You pop into my thoughts daily. Sending lots of love your way. X

  • Thank you that's nice of you to say so. I don't feel very strong but if I can help others then I'm doing something productive. I'm only able to reach out because I understand and that's what many of us lack outside of this forum, someone who understands our journeys and that can be a lonely feeling xx

  • thinking of you x

  • God bless Babba bean. Safe in the arms of angels now, and smiling down on Mummy and Daddy forever xx

  • Ah Hun,beautiful casket for your beautiful baby.sending u hugs xxx

  • Sending you such a huge hug xxx

  • Big hugs πŸ€— thinking of you xx

  • You are so inspiring, What a beautiful idea. My heart is truely breaking for you all. Sending the biggest hugs to get hold through this Xxx

  • Thank you xx


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