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Had the worst week ever. After the elation of getting a bfp it was quickly followed last Monday and Tuesday evening by very bad cramping and brown discharge which turned to red blood Tues night. Woke up to more red bleeding Weds morning so went to GP who took bloods and told me to contact my clinic. Clinic booked me in for early scan on Thurs. I was 5 weeks and 4 days on Thurs and they could only see one possible sac (had 2 embies transferred). HCG was 6400 and with the bleeding they send me to A&E. Had urine taken and was sent home. Still bleeding, not heavy cramps have gone, had to go back to A&E this morning to have bloods taken. HCG has dropped to just over 4000. I have to back again Monday but I dont think its looking good for us. Feeling very deflated. I hope everyone is doing well on their journeys and looking after themselves xxx

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Oh Beanme, I'm so sorry to read this. Look after yourself and I truly hope you get good news on Monday. X

I'm so sorry to read your post beanme it's so incredibly hard to get your hopes up and then have to go through all this stress and uncertainty, take care of yourself I'm sure it's all very hard with all the waiting xxx

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misswinky34

☹️ Oh no. It's been a dreadful week for this group this week. Hoping it was too early to see the bean, hoping for a happy ending for you. 🍀

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Tugsgirl in reply to misswinky34

We'd all been seeing so much happiness and positive results on here for a while. It's so tough to keep seeing people struggling on what should now be the happiest times for them 😞 X

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SeniorPhipps

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this Beanme, thinking of you xx

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Sprinkles86

Thinking of you, take it easy and be kind to yourself xxxx

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Tugsgirl

Oh I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this. I'm truly hoping that you have at least one little bean still fighting! I'm thinking of you and your little ones xx

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Beanme in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you so much Tugsgirl. Im hoping too but it feels doubtful. Hope youre doing ok:)

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WeeMrsH

Could it be that one embie is stilll safe and sound? It might be (although still devastating none the less) that one has gone and the other is fine? Are you getting another scan? Big hugs xx

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Beanme in reply to WeeMrsH

Im hoping so but unsure about the drop in hcg. I will be getting a scan as well so should know fir definite then. Thank you for your thoughts. I hope all is well with you.

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WeeMrsH in reply to Beanme

I really hope at least one of your little ones is still safe and sound. Stay strong. Xx

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emmab178

How awful. Fingers crossed for Monday's bloods x

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CountryCat

So sorry that you are under so much stress xx I truly hope everything is okay and that both your little ones may still be safe and sound. Thinking of you!

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72cloud9

I'm so sorry u r going thru this!! Rest up today as much as is possible as I know u must feel frantic!! Will b thinking of u tomorrow.big hugs xxx

Thinking of you and praying it's good news xx

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Missy_22

Sad news I'm so sorryxxx

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