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And just like that it's over

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:( statement says it all. This is the furthest I've gotten with all my 8 pregnancies I got to see a scan on Friday and a gestational Sak was there our 5dt was Doing amazing hcg doubling nicely hcg on Sunday was 4975.

And just as you start to let your guard down, and enjoy the morning sickness boom you start bleeding fresh red blood so not spotting filled half a pad no clots and no cramping :( rung the clinic they've said to just let it all pass naturally and go back in a week :( I'm beyond devastated goodbye little bean

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JA-fnukPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Thinking of youJanet

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Millbanks

Oh love, that is so heartbreaking. I'm so so sorry for your loss. Look after yourself xxx

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XOXO13

I’m so sorry 💔 sending you big hugs xx

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Redsequin

Oh no. I'm so so sorry that you're having to go through this. It's so unfair. Sending lots of love your way xxxxx

I’m so sorry xx

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Carolyo

I'm so sorry, it is not fair, I feel it...lots of love 💕 xx

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ki50

I'm so sorry xx😔

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry. Sending love and hugs 💞 xx

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Monsoon_rain

So sorry to read this sending much love x

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ClaireB24

I’m so sorry xxx

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Maisie234

I wish I could give you a hug. I'm so sorry to read this. Xx

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LittleT123

So sorry for your loss 💔

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islwyn

I m so sorry to hear.... i had the exact same yesterday too. Not sure what to do and where to go next...

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Leebee03 in reply to islwyn

💞💞💞

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Kieneyl in reply to islwyn

Awwww islwyn I'm so sorry it's just devastating :(

I'm so sorry ❤️

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Ell493

I'm sorry 💔

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Anjalichaudhary

I m so sorry to hear, no one can describe your pain, stay strong

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Cotswoldmum

I’m so sorry, but blood doesn’t always mean a miscarriage, especially as you’ve had no clots or cramping. I had a big bleed at around week 6/7 and baby was fine. I’ve got everything crossed for you xxx

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Kieneyl in reply to Cotswoldmum

You are absolutely right after all my previous though I went into overdrive not out of the woods yet still need to rest because next to baby is subchronic haematoma. The Sak was bigger today and there was a yolk there too but still cramping bad and brown bleeding now :( but trying to stay positive too x

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

Oh no.. that is devastating. I am so sorry. I am sending you big hugs💔

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Ladycoco20

So sorry for your loss 💔

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zytajones

I'm so sorry to hear that. Thinking of you.

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Sjr1988

Hey lovely I’m so sorry for your loss, I am keeping my fingers crossed still for you though! I bled from 5 weeks to 14 weeks and have a bouncing almost 3 year old so whilst it looks doom and gloom there’s still hope xx

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Leebee03

So sorry! Sending big hugs 💞 xx

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Hoping20

Dear Kieneyl, I just read your post and I am so very sorry to read what you are going through. This is heartbreaking. Please try to take care and I really hope you have some love and support around you over the next few days and weeks. Thinking of you today x

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Sammy246

I'm so sorry, but blood doesn't always mean miscarriage, cant you increase your pessaries? With my first miscarriage I had 2 embryos transferred, but I started bleeding heavily but after all the test one embryo was there still developing so I was asked to increase my pessaries, i did lose this pregnancy but 3 weeks after as their was no heartbeat but my sister who was heavily bleeding at 6 weeks now has a 2 year old son. I am praying for you xx

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Kieneyl in reply to Sammy246

Thankyou so much so we had our scan at EPAU and baby was there with yolk at a tentative 5 week four days there is a subchronic haematoma next to baby so they said that's why I might have bled still got quite bad cramps and brown blood but alon bed rest now I couldn't believe when they said baby was there and yolk was seen too x

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Sammy246 in reply to Kieneyl

Plenty of rest and prayers, the little bean continues to develop xx

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Barbemily

My heart breaks for you, life is really cruel. Will pray for you, take time to grieve. Hugs

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Mgkt2021

So sorry to hear this xx

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Twiglet2

So sorry to hear you are bleeding.Please push for your clinic to do a repeat scan and monitor your HCG levels. I’ve had this twice but only once was a miscarriage (and I had cramping with that one) one was a SCH and I bled horribly bright red for weeks and had a healthy baby. I dont want to give you false hope but in either case your clinic should be monitoring you to make sure you are okay and your HCG levels have indeed dropped if it is an early loss. Sending you love 💗 xxx

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Kieneyl in reply to Twiglet2

Hi hun thanks for replying I pushed for a scan they wouldn't repeat hcg because when they did scan... baby was there with yolk no heart beat yet as 5 week four days but next to baby was a subchronic haematoma so I'm on bed rest and scan tentatively next week did they also anything else with you when you found out? X

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Twiglet2 in reply to Kieneyl

We’ll done. Pushing for the scan and that’s a bit more promising news of what they found. Yeah same experience for me once they saw that with me they stopped any more HCG tests and scanned me weekly. I had the same at that stage. Didn’t have heartbeat until around 7 weeks. Lots and lots of bed rest was all they said. In the scan at 8 weeks they couldn’t see the hematoma anymore but I bled until 10weeks. Really hoping it works out for you xxxx

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Mglove

So sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of love xxx

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Lacryacky

Give you a big hug!!!

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Dpwpool

Sending love x

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Applepie7

This is so sad. Thinking of you x

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AuroraXen

I'm so sorry to read this. I don't want to raise any hopes, but I'm praying that this pregnancy may not necessarily be over yet, as a lot of women on here talk about heavy bleeding which still ends up in a healthy baby. But of course I don't know the ins and outs of your specific situation so maybe that isn't helpful to say, i don't know 😢 Just know we're all thinking of you xx

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Kieneyl in reply to AuroraXen

Thankyou hun so we had a scan and baby was there with yolk I have a subchronic haematoma next to baby so I have to have bed rest but baby was there just scary lots of bleeding today too but more brown now and cramping x

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AuroraXen in reply to Kieneyl

That's SO good to hear, thanks Goodness! I know you aren't out of the woods yet but every reason to think all will turn out well. get tons of rest xx

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Running79

Hi

Sending hugs to you, it’s heartbreaking to read

I don’t think there is anything anyone can say that will take away the sorrow you feel right now

Take care of yourself xx

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Deesol21

I'm so sorry for your loss. Big Hugs ❤❤

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Kieneyl

Hi ladies Thankyou al for your kinds words so we went for a scan and there was a yolk sak so a positive........ for that part however we have a subchronic haematoma next to the baby so I have to be in bed rest for next two weeks and pray no more red blood xxx

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Redsequin in reply to Kieneyl

So glad there is still some very real hope! Will be thinking of you. xxxxx

in reply to Kieneyl

Oh this is amazing news!!!!! I have the exact same thing and too thought I had lost the baby. I'll be praying for both of us! Stay strong, rest up and I've been told to drink plenty of water as that helps! ❤❤

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If you look on my post lots of ladies have had the same thing with positive outcomes ❤❤

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