Hoping & praying

Good evening ladies, well today hasn't been a good day πŸ˜”, I'm 11+5 and started to bleed this morning, been the EPU and had an examination, I've been told the bleeding is coming from high up (womb) & there is a 50% I'll miscarriage 😒, they don't offer scans over the weekend and the next available day they can do it will be Wednesday, why make someone wait this long, knowing this is a ICIS baby as well 😑. I'm so worried as I lost our little girl at 24 weeks last year & I've been on pins for the last 11 week suffering from anxiety. I just hope everything is ok πŸ™πŸ»

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  • Thought are with you, try to stay positive. Xx

  • Hoping and praying for you and your little one honey. Rest up. Don't do anything that puts strain on your body. Sending you a massive hug. Really really hoping all is wellπŸ’ž

  • Thanks huni x

  • I am so sorry to read this, you poor thing. Am rather stunned you're to wait so long after everything, it seems cruel.

    Remember there is nothing you could or or can do now. 50% chance you'll miscarry but equally 50% chance you won't. Look after yourself and take all the support you can.

    Crossing my fingers and sending a prayer your way xxx

  • Thanks daisy, feels like the rollercoaster never ends xx

  • I hope everything works out ok with you. Some motherrcare shops do scans xxx

  • I've checked with a scanning clinic & they won't do it as I'm bleeding. I'm going to call the ivf clinic on Monday and see if they can get me in any earlier xx

  • Thinking of you that's awful having you wait that long. Fingers crossed it ll be good news xx

  • I'm so sorry to read this. Please rest and I will be keeping you and and your little one in my thoughts xx

  • its awful they are making you wait that long, is there any chance you could go private for a reassurance scan maybe? I hope everything is ok

  • Hi Hun, I've checked a couple of clinic but they say the won't do it as I'm bleeding and they're not medical trained. I'll phone the ivf clinic Monday and see if they will scan me x

  • Plz call d emergency number given at all ivf clinics or go into a private hospital and get a scan done. Plz don't wait.

  • Thanks Hun, waiting on the ivf clinic to ring me back and see if they can get me in today. Good news is the bleeding has stopped so fingers crossed x

  • Sending u lots of hugs.. 50% chance you will be ok.. try to think of that if you can xxxxx

  • Oh gosh Hun, that's horrid no one can help Cos it's the weekend!! Keeping everything crossed that u & bubba will b ok x

  • Thinking of you and hopefully all is still ok and your the other 50% where some people bleed and all is still ok x so so hoping its your time for your miracle xx

  • Ah you poor love, so sorry for your previous loss and now to be all shaken up waiting...sending big hugs and positive vibes xxx

  • I had a bleed at 10+6 went to get it checked it was an implantation bleed , there was a little pool of blood on the scan . All ok so fingers crossed your will be something as simple as that xxx

  • This is an awful situation to be in Hun! One I have been in many times myself!! I had very heavy bleeding at 12 weeks and passed a massive clot, I also bled at 8 weeks, nhs would not scan me as was always a weekend!! Went to baby bond in Manchester and they were fantastic and did not care it was because we were bleeding! They can still scan and check for a heartbeat!!! Try baby bond, yes it's expensive but peace of mind is worth every penny. I was always classed as threatened miscarriage but baby was always fine. U might have a haematoma. Have u any pain? No pain is a good sign.

    Good luck Hun I know the anxiety I am 12 weeks 4 days after loosing my little boy at 36 weeks and it's sooooo tough! I bought a Doppler which has been my life line and only thing getting me through this early bit xx hugs xx

  • Thanks huni, sorry I didn't come on yesterday. I've just called the ivf clinic and I'm waiting for them to come back to me and hopefully get me in today, if not I will camp out in A&E. the good news is the bleeding has stopped and I've had no pain.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, it's heart breaking at any stage but 36 weeks, you poor thing.

    What's a Doppler Hun?

    I'll up date everyone later, fingers crossed.

    Xx

  • Do not buy a doppler, it is for medical professionals only! xxx

  • The machine the midwifes check your babies heartbeat with :) I check mine everyday. They can't be relied upon later as things can still not be right and have a normal heartbeat but it's got me through this early stage knowing I can find it and hear it just for a few seconds everyday, not good to use it for long periods xx

  • Thinking of you and hoping everything is okay! Please stay positive. X

  • That's terrible that you have to wait after everything you've been through. I hope you can get a scan on Monday. Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts that all will be fine πŸ€πŸ™πŸ» Xx

  • Sorry you are going through this...

    I'd be tempted to call your IVF clinic, the GP and midwife to get things ramped up.

    Would they really not scan you if you turned up on Monday in tears and stressed out??

  • I've just called the ivf clinic, waiting for them to come back to me so fingers crossed they will see me today xx

  • O no, god should not b ths much cruel...praying to god that everything is normal....good luck...

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