Hi Ladies hoping someone can offer some advice... we had our IVF cycle in July/August which sadly ended in a miscarriage last month. Third miscarriage for me so being referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic for more tests, appointment is end of November.
When the miscarriage happened although I was upset I tried to stay strong and focus on the positives (the IVF worked for us just something wasn't quite right with this one) and I didn't take any time off work as I didn't feel I needed it, the miscarriage was fairly straightforward and didn't need medical intervention unlike my last one where I ended up having to take two weeks off.
I have kept myself busy, treated myself to spa days, a massage every week so doing nice things for myself but over the last week or so I've felt myself changing. I feel numb to most things, have no drive in work anymore and feel like I'm walking through a very thick fog. I feel like I need a massive kick up the ar*e and just don't know how to shake this feeling. Has anyone been here before and have any suggestions on how to pull myself back out of this hole? Xxx