I want to give up.

[koreline]

Yesterday it was the appt day. I was already prepared for negative results as none of my preggy tests showed 2 lines. What a shitty day it was I must say. It was already our 4 attempt and I don’t know how many of them we still have because obviously we can’t do it forever. Our wallets are half empty already, we have spent a lot on the treatment, on the medication. I don’t know how long that will last before we give up. Unfortunately I am already ready to throw away all of my hopes. I don’t think that there is even a point to keep going. I can’t continue getting through so many obstacles just to get my forth bfn. This is so stressful!!

Share please your positive results, it will cheer me up a lot.

Thank you.

PS sorry for such a depressing post….

[Yalda]

Hi koreline, I am sorry to hear that you had a bad day. The whole IVF experience is a rollercoaster. I have a severe endometriosis and adenomyosis. I have only one ovary on the left and one fallopian tube on the right. I went through 3 IVF with the highest dosage but they all failed. The doctor who did my last IVF told me to think about other alternatives. She also told me that my chances are less than2% to get pregnant naturally. I started a new job and a month later I found out I was pregnant. Now I have a beautiful child. Please don't give up.

[vic77]

Oh no koreline my heart goes out to you. I have just had my first bfn and feel awful so can't imagine what you must feel like. I loved Yalda story and it gave me such hope. I have good days and bad days and stories like this encourage me. You are so so string to have got through all this before and you will again ..allow yourself to have awful days as they will soon be followed by bette days😀sending you lots of love and hugs xxx

[pm27]

I'm really sorry to hear your 4th attempt resulted in another BFN. Unfortunately I can't offer a positive as we had 3 BFNs from 3 rounds of ICSI. For us it was time to call it quits, it was a hard decision and only you know how much you can cope with financially as well as emotionally and physically.

I wish you all the best.

[Sunny_skies]

I am so sorry to hear this. I felt like that after my first attempt and now preparing for my second so I can't imagine how you are feeling. I must say you are such a strong woman to get this far but understand that you are loosing hope. Please don't be too hard on yourself and take some time away from ivf. I pray you come back stronger because I have a colleague who had 6 attempts and her last attempt is now 11 years old. If you can, don't give up hope.

Lots of hugs. Xx

[katya38]

Really admire you only had 1 bfn and that was bad enough. Go with your gut you ll know what's right for you xx

[Filmgirl101]

It took 6 rounds to get our little one. Rounds 7 and 8 miscarried. After round 8, I was ready to throw in the towel, but round 9 is rapidly approaching.