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"You'll be next!"

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Another evening of baby talk and "you'll be next" followed by a lovely smile unaware of what we're going through ..... This is so tough waiting to try again an no guarantees !! Roll on 27th our next appointment. Come on 2016 we all deserve a good year xx

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isitonlyadream

Hi fingers crossed

We are only just starting on this journey....but we always said no kids.

I k ow that's a wrong thing to say but we married each other knowing there was no chance.,my Husband had a vasectomy at 30 with his ex wife. I'm younger and never felt the urge. However it's all changed. Suddenly I want our child. Suddenly his snip does not matter. Suddenly there is hope. Maybe....

All I can say they've said to me and I dealt with....keep it on the Q T and enjoy the secret..... xx

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abbie103

I've just had a failed attempt and waiting for my 3 cycles on a period so I can do fet my appointment about my failed attempt is beginning of feb I know how u feel with this I get people saying when are you having one and I just reply with I'm not ready yet when really I've been ready for ages life is so cruel xxx

Those evenings are so fustrating , in one way you want to blurt it all out but then that will just lead to loads of questions! I'm on my 5th cycle of chlomid with no luck yet! Finger crossed for 2016... X

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Fingerscrossed4

Thanks for replies. Takes strong ladies to get on with normal day to day things an face people like that when we have so much going on that they don't know about. Will be worth every annoying question when we have our wish come true xx

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Hopeful1982

Oh, I wish people weren't so pass remarkable when it comes to when you're having children. It just adds to the pressure!

A girl I hardly new once asked me outright (the month before we were due to start IVF) when I planned on having children. When I said I didn't know she responded by saying 'what do you mean you don't know?!'. It was awful!

Anyway, here's hoping it is a good year for you and you are next in line! x

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