Ready to say goodbye to 2015! 1st IVF lost after 2 weeks, 2nd IVF miscarried after 8 weeks (medical miscarriage), I wanted to have my 3rd attempt before the year ended and it doesn’t look like it is going to happen. I had tests carried out by miscarriage clinic, I was told the results would take 6 weeks, I got them at 8-9 weeks after constantly ringing them saying they were delaying my treatment, it made me angry that they had my results there but admin has a back log getting appointments out. But finally the consultant told me them over the phone and they were all clear. Made up there is nothing wrong BUT the delay in getting my results has resulted in me not being able to have my third attempt until 2016 because the lab is closed over Christmas to carry out FET.
When I explain my frustration to family and friends there response “things happen for a reason” and “it will happen one day”
The frustration that having a baby is in the power of other people’s hands. I never know whether to laugh (because it’s a complete joke), cry or get angry.