Hi ladies
I'm at a loss today. I have been coping well recently after my recent 5th (failed) IVF cycle where I only got 2 eggs, although both fertilised they didn't divide normally early on which is indicative of an egg issue. I am an emotional person who sheds tears at upsetting things usually but no tears have come to pass at this. Maybe I am not coping as well as I thought.
I had my debrief this week. I moved to this clinic after 3 attempts elsewhere, and a frozen which resulted in TFMR. I am trying to embryo bank which is useless when you have no embryos. I was disappointed that the clinic seemed to want to do the same protocol again. I told them I am not comfortable with this. To appease me they said they'll scan me Day 2 of the relevant cycle and then decide. I am with a well-resepcted clinic that I researched and chose carefully so I don't think the solution is to move clinics. Maybe in my case there is nothing they can change, maybe they have tried everything.
Sorry I am just feeling not good today. It will inevitably be linked to the fact my due date was supposed to be tomorrow for my baby that I lost to chromosomal problems via TFMR. A road nobody should ever have to walk.
I'm even finding it hard on here lately, feeling like I just can't catch a break to progress with things. I think maybe I am fighting a losing battle. My doctor remains optimistic but I am feeling like I have no confidence in anything ever working. Is it just false hope? All I have known when it comes to pregnancy is loss, I know I am not alone in that.
I guess I'm finding it difficult to organise my thoughts in to what to do next.
Thank you for reading my confused thoughts, I don't have a question as such unless anyone has any advice xx