Sad day yesterday..

[Hollibob]

Sadly yesterday, at 9+5 weeks following a BFP with icsi, it was confirmed that there was no longer a heartbeat and we would experience a missed miscarriage.

Gutted and heartbroken that we had got so far on the ivf roller coaster

[DC5867]

What awful news for you. Two weeks ago we miscarried a surprise naturally conceived baby at 13 weeks, after 4 years of trying and many bumps along the road. It's just heartbreaking. I'm sure you'll have a roller coaster of emotions ahead of you in the next couple of weeks. All you can do is cry when you want to cry and take good care of yourself and each other. You can take the positive of getting so far on the journey - there's good reason to be hopeful for the future. Thinking of you x

[Hollibob in reply to DC5867]

Thanks DC5867. Your emotions must still be quite raw as well.

Take care of yourself too x

[Mooster1]

So sorry to hear this hun. I had a missed miscarriage last year so know exactly how it feels.

There are no words hun....just look after yourself and take time out as it's still a grieving process. Xxx

[Hollibob in reply to Mooster1]

Thanks Mooster1.

We think we might have also had some type of early miscarriage last March without knowing we were pregnant when I was taking clomid, but the nurse at the gyne clinic poo hoo'd that it was a possibility due to being around the time of my period and blamed the endo flaring up. The pain and experience was horrendous on the day and around 5 days later, I'm sure I passed an early embryo

I did a pregnancy test which was negative.

We saw the gyne in the May who said it might have been a cyst and sent me for a scan.

The sonographer took ages asking loads of questions and the scan was surprisingly painful. The nurse then said that there were a couple or small cysts, but not that would cause that pain and they sent me for urgent blood tests as they were concerned that it might be a chronic ectopic. The blood test came back negative, but they never gave a further explanation....

X

[Hope23]

My heart goes out to you it really does. When you'd got so far with it too, it's truly unfair. I had a miscarriage at 6.5 weeks last October and there really isn't anything anyone can say to ease that pain and grief. As the others have said look after yourself and eachother. And don't be hard on yourself, that is so important hun.

So sorry

Love to u

Take care xx

[Hollibob in reply to Hope23]

Thanks Hope23.

I hope you are keeping well during your 2WW?

X

[Hope23 in reply to Hollibob]

Ah not too bad thank you! Just feels different to last time so I've been a bit worried about the lack of twinges and stabs. My boobs aren't that sore this time too. Just have a pinching ache low down in my tummy and feel tired. So hard isn't it. Us Ivf ladies analyse everything when in reality if it was a natural pregnancy we probably wouldn't even know as you don't get symptoms that early!

Time will tell!

Testing Sunday, 2 days early so I can do it calmly with my husband here. Rather that racing because of leaving for work.

Thanks hun xx

[Hollibob in reply to Hope23]

It is very difficult to not to read into everything...wishing you lots of luck for Sunday and your official testing date too x

[wizzleandmolly]

So sorry to hear this, we have been through 2 missed miscarriages and its heartbreaking. No one can say or do anything to make things better but in time it does get easier. Take care of your self's.

XXX

[Hollibob in reply to wizzleandmolly]

Thanks Wizzleandmolly.

Our bodies can sometimes be so cruel

X

[debs1082]

So sorry to hear your sad news, take care of each other xxx

[Hollibob in reply to debs1082]

Thanks Debs1082.

I hope you are feeling well during your early pregnancy?

X

[debs1082 in reply to Hollibob]

Much the same really, still having constant pelvic pain and got another 12 days before I go for my first check up. Annoyed that my hospital won't do any blood or hormone tests so just have to wait it out....again.

Hope you're doing okay. I can't even begin to imagine how you and your partner must be feeling after making it so far, it's heartbreaking. So sorry xxx

[pm27]

So sorry to hear this. I too have experienced the pain and disappointment and sheer disbelief of a missed miscarriage discovered at 12 weeks. I know there's nothing I can say to help you at this time but just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you.

Much love

[Hollibob in reply to pm27]

Thanks PM27. I appreciate your message.

Are you feeling ok after your transfer?

X

[pm27 in reply to Hollibob]

I'm feeling OK after ET, it's been such a strange week.

Trying to think positive and stay calm.

[Hidden]

Hello. I'm so so sorry. I know how you feel. Me and my partner lost out baby in December at 7 weeks. We were devestated. Especially as it was our sixth transfer. It's awful. Take care of yourself honey. Am thinking of you. Lots of love. ️Xx

[Hollibob in reply to Hidden]

Thank you...you are one strong lady x

[Cazo]

I'm so sorry to read this. Big hugs, my thoughts are with you x

[Hollibob in reply to Cazo]

Thank you Cazo x

[EmmaT88]

I'm so sorry to hear this! I was so hoping this was your time!

I know there are no words to help. Please take care, thinking of you xxx

[Hollibob in reply to EmmaT88]

Thanks EmmaT88.

Hope your cycle is going well?

X

[EmmaT88 in reply to Hollibob]

It's ok, we had 4 eggs collected Wednesday and 3 of them have fertilised which is good. However i am feeling really un well all of a sudden and worried something might be wrong! So just wait and seeing now.

[Kernishp]

You poor thing- you don't deserve this. I really hope the universe is storing up some good karma for you and your partner to enjoy in the future. Xx

[Hollibob in reply to Kernishp]

Thank you

X

[Mrslparsler]

So sad to hear your news, I have suffered miscarriage in the past and was heartbreaking. Try and stay strong x

[Hollibob in reply to Mrslparsler]

Thank you x

[Boogalooa]

I'm really, really sorry for you xxx

[Hollibob in reply to Boogalooa]

Thank you x

[Miroslava]

Really sorry that's very sad news for all of us that one of us somewhere there got life playing with them again Xxx thoughts are with u x

[Hollibob in reply to Miroslava]

Thank you...you must be excited with starting everything soon?

X

[Cathie-K]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Hopefully your area allows more than one cycle & fingers crossed for you huni x

[Hollibob in reply to Cathie-K]

Hello. Yes thankfully we are very lucky and have another funded cycle x