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Bleeding 10 days post trasfer I’m so sad 😞

Hello everyone

I’m here again I feel very sad because as I was asking yesterday I have all the symptoms of my period coming and today when I went to do wee and wipe myself I had blood so I’m guessing is a BFN for me rather than a BFP. I have cramps and boobs pain and now I’m bleeding a bit every time I wipe myself.

I thought it was too go to be truth I only managed to have 1follicle, luckily in that follicle I had one egg and my egg fertilised by IVF they did the embryo transfer on day 3 and they told me it was a top quality embryo but now that I’m bleeding a bit I guess everything looked so good from the moment of managing to have a egg in my only follicle and managed to fertilised by IVF and then being a top quality one. But now that I’m bleeding I feel devastated my partner says let’s wait until Wednesday that is my test day but i just really feel all the premenstrual symptoms plus the blood. I’m not too hopeful anymore 😥😪

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Don't give up home, lots of ladies have bleeding and still get bfp. I'm in my 2ww as well and been having major AF symptoms, it's hard to stay positive but the meds cause a lot of what we're feeling, ur not out yet, good luck xox

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Thank you I just feel so sad at the moment. Hope you get the BFP good luck to you too xxx

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Definitely not over until test day Hun. Hang on in there, distract & spoil yourself - this could still be down to the meds. You’re not out till your out. Good luck for test day! Xx

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Thank you very much I will try to stay positive but really is so hard I’ve crying but it’s true some people have had bleeding and still got the BFP I just feel it might not be me this time 😞 but thanks you very much xx

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Awww it's so hard when you start bleeding before test day. I had that twice but keep going.....some ladies are still luck and go on to have success. Can you up your progesterone if you have enough? Hugs.xx

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I’m doing injections once in the morning and estradiol pills 3 times a day. Should I call the doctor? I’m on the NHS and they say it could be normal to bleed on the information paper they gave me after the embryo transfer. But i thought it would be normal to bleed right after not 10 days after. What do you think? Thanks for answering xx

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You never know, it could be late implantation bleeding. I've only ever done pessary progesterone and my clinic said I could increase but unsure about injections. If there is a number, there's no harm in calling for advice, at least you'll not have any regrets!xx

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I had some bleeding on my tww and was still bleeding slightly on test day........we thought it was over for us too but we got a bfp and now currently 11 weeks pregnant!

I no it’s so hard but don’t give up hope just yet!! Make sure you rest lots and it might just ease the bleeding xxx

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OMG thank you thank you!!!! Youve given me hope!!!!! I still bleeding but hopefully I will have the same success as you!!! Thank you for giving me hope xoxoxo

And congratulations on your bundle of joy I’m so happy for you xxxx

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I bled on and off for about 4 days! Are you bleeding heavy or just when you go to the loo!!

I no how scary this journey is so feel free to message me if you want to talk to anyone! Aww thank you, still a long way to go but our hopes are very high right now xxx

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is mostly when I go to the toilet the colour is brownish/ reddish but it shows a little bit on the loo after I wee I have a pad but it only has spotting. Sorry for the whole description 😔 and I also feel cramps just like period cramps not terrible to take paracetamol.

It feels like a roller coaster one moment you are up the next you are down.

Thank you so much for helping me I really appreciate it.

Of course your hopes are very high right now and they should continue like that, it must be so beautiful 😍 to know you have a little lovely in growing in your tummy. I’m so happy for you!!!! Xx

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That’s exactly what mine was like, then I had the odd bit of bright red blood which soon went!! Hopefully it’s implementation bleeding!!

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you on test day!!

Thank you, it’s so amazing and seeing the little heartbeat on the scan was the best thing ever! Just a week to wait till our next scan xxx

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Oh Lisa you’ve given me so much hope!!! Thank you for sharing it with me.

Oh their little heartbeat 💗 must feel so great and emotional, good luck on your next scan 😘

one more question what did you do when you were bleeding I’ve decided to stay home and watch tv and rest. Xx

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That’s exactly what I did too!! When it started I was at work, my boss sent me home and that’s where I stayed!! Lots of rest with your feet up is the thing to do, so your doing all you can!

Good luck xxx

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Thank you very very much indeed!!! Have a wonderful weekend xx

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Hi. I had the same thing on Thursday 9 days after transfer. I was certain it was over. I did a test that day and it was BFP that day and on my OTD also so please don’t give up hope.xx

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I’ve been wanting to do a test but I’m so scared to actually find out I’m not pregnant.

Sorry what’s OTD is it on test day?

Thank you for your reply it gives me so much hope!

Congratulations on your BFP is always so nice to read post like this and it gives hope to everyone going through the 2 ww. Xoxoxo

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Hi, it’s official test day... My transfer was a 5 dad transfer and I had to test 10 days after. We are cautiously hopeful. Still a long way to go. Hope all works out well for you xx

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Thank you for the OTD I’m not from Mexico so sometimes I don’t understand 😊.

Well please continue to be cautious and hopeful and look after yourself and that little baby slowly growing in your tummy, surely is the best thing ever!!!!

Thanks for your support

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Don't stop taking your medication until test day and you know definitively either way. Some bleeding doesn't necessarily mean you're out, although it's hard to stay hopeful xxx

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Yes it’s so hard but I’m still hopeful as everyone says you are out until pregnancy test day. Thank you very much xx

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Hi I had two cycles, my first one I had no bleeding or pain and what I thought were pregnancy symptoms but it wasn’t I got a bfn. The second cycle I was sure it had also failed as I had no symptoms not even sore boobs, I had strong menstral type cramps and red blood bleeding. I cried so much, searched and read so many posts but most said red blood bleeding is a bad sign so I was in dispair. To my shock when test day came it was a bfp 😮. I now have my little miracle who is 6 months old. All I can say to you is don’t give up hope it may just be your time for bfp 😁xx

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Oh that’s so lovely that even thought the second round you’ve got your BFP even though you were bleeding. I gives me hope 🤞🏼 Thank you for sharing your story with me. Hopefully on Wednesday I will get my BFP 😘

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I'm so sorry hun. I bleed on my day 10 post transfer and I felt devasted to. Sending you positive vibes. Xxx test on Wednesday as planned. You never know. X

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Thank you very much. Well not long know only 3 more days and I will be able to find out. My bleeding has stopped for the time being 🤞🏼Still so hopefully x

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I have everything crossed for you

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I started bleeding/ spotting brown blood before test day and got a BFP thinking I was out and it was our only 5 day blast. Even after the positive test the one day I had some pinkish blood and then a sudden sharp pain and some bright red blood with a clot on when I wiped and then it all stopped, despite me thinking I was going to miscarry. It turned out my lining was irritated from the pessaries so I began doing them rectally and currently I'm 31 plus 6 days pregnant. Unless you are bleeding heavy briggt red blood and filling a pad within an hour, please don't give up yet xx

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OMG thank you give me so much hope, now my bleeding had stopped so I’m even more hopeful reading all this post 🤞🏼 Hopefully is mi BFP that I want so badly as everyone else in this forum!

Congratulations on your pregnancy hope it’s goes smoothly. It must be soooo lovely 😊

Thanks for your support x

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It is well wit u don’t give up

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Thank you x

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Hi, I don’t want to give you false hope but my clinic told me in the past that this could be a sign of implementation as long as it wasn’t heavy bleeding. I hope it will be your case. So please don’t give up. maybe you should contact your clinic? I hope it will turn up positively. Take care. Lots of luck 🤞🤞🤞🤞💕

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Thank you, well so far I haven’t had heavy bleeding hopefully I will continue like that, is more like only when I wipe and not al the time, so maybe that’s a good sign 🤞🏼Just 2 more days and counting to do my pregnancy test.

Thanks for your comment :)x

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Oh good. I will keep my fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞🤞🤞 good luck with the test 💖

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I hope this is a good sign of implantation, apparently one in four women experience mild bleeding at the time of implantation. Fingers crossed this is all positive news for you. 😘

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Hold on, honestly, just test on the correct day. I’ve been guilty of panicking on the 2ww before and it got me stressed when I really shouldn’t be. Understandably, you feel devastated at the moment, but I wish you all the very best. Xxx

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Thank you very much! I tested on the day and my miracle baby is brewing inside me 🍼💗 I’ve got a BFP. Thank you for your support and advice!

Hope yours was also a BFP xx

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! OMG So so happy for you!!! I’ve just read all of this thread and seen you posted your news only 5 mins ago!! EEK!! Enjoy every moment and all the best for the future xxx

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It was yes! Congratulations, this is fantastic news xxxx

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