Feeling negative.

[jillmooney]

I got a negative pregnancy test on the 10th of September and just had letter through for my review on the 17th november. I know its not too far away but to me its a million miles away. I just want some answers from a professional and i have to wait months so all i can do now is sit and wonder what went wrong and drive myself crazy.

[P_willy]

Hi jillmooney,

I know how you feel, I had my negative test on the 19th August and my heart is still in pieces! One day I think I'm ok and another im crying over anything. This week I'm due my period and I've cried and cried... Why is this happening to me is all I can say. I want answers, if I've had a baby before why is God stopping me having another

[Anne123_45]

That is absolutely ridiculous they're making you wait that long.. Try ringing them and say your distressed and need to speak to someone xx

[gill76]

I know exactly how you feel I waited a month before my consultation, we had failed Ivf in May and it's still so raw, I find myself feeling normal one minuet then really low crying and angry the next. No one understands unless they have been there it's only naturel, I hope it comes quick for you and you feel better soon. We are trying again next year and hopefully will have 2 embryos implanted, I'm being put on a higher dose of powers so having 5 instead of 4, I wish they would of done this in the first place but what will be will be. I hope your dream of becoming a mummy comes true, stay posative and good luck with everything. Xx

[Melaineh]

Am the same mrs it's horrible ur just left really it's no nice atall xxx

[cristinajamescj]

I am sorry to know that

[crystal2013]

Hi Gill I think I'm just alittle older than you and I am going through the same. 2nd failed FET in August and a total of 3 good blasts used. No reason (so far) why it should fail. After the first failed FET I thought fair play you cant all be lucky first time but when it failed again I thought right there must be something undiagnosed then. I just get this feeling something is yet to be discovered and I have lost all trust in my body as I've never beenn pregnant before which actually doesnt help as despite having the tools I am convinced there is always a chance you just might not be able to carry a child. It gets to a point where if you contonue to rack your brains any further you will go over the edge so for my own sanity I've given up trying to be healthy, watching what I eat, taking special tablets and overall puting the effort in. I think during this time whilst you wait literally have a drink and eat what you fancy and have a late night as you will lose your mind. I have my follow up next Thursday and I've already looked at killer cells and other possible problems and I want to be tested for that including my thyroid but am certainly not defrosting anymore for a while. Plus there is always a chance it just aint the right time yet for whatever reason in your life. You wont know anything until you see the dr so dont be hard on yourself and remember you have alot of time on your hands and even though its failed so far at least you have time on your side you never know it may come naturally

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Hi Manny

Are you on this website for support or only to advertise acupuncture in Wimpole St? I see you mention it in every reply you have ever posted.

Your replies seem quite impersonal to me, they just appear to be copy and pasted from previous replies, which makes me suspicious of your intentions.

I also tried acupuncture in Harley St, and it did not work for me at all. It does not work for everyone. I think it's important to be balanced about acupuncture, because there are alot of charlatan practitioners out there who continue to take money off patients even when there are no beneficial results.

If it genuinely did work for you, then great. But I think that recommending only one practitioner in central London is wrong.

[SusanS]

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