Just found out my 1st IVF cycle has failed, time to move on now.

[danielledavison]

[Emmy007]

I'm so so sorry Danielle

[danielledavison]

Its ok I knew anyways, im ok honestly, ill get there im sure.x

[Emmy007]

I'm so gutted, at least you've got some frozen embryos so hopefully won't be too long and you can try again. Sending you loads of hugs xxxxx

[danielledavison]

Thanks Emmy, I was told by the nurses this morning it will be earlie in the new year when we start them to let my boby get completely back to normal.x

[Emmy007]

That's not too long, sooner than I thought......at least you've got Xmas to preoccupy you xxx

[Treacle]

Hi Danielle

I'm really sorry it hasn't worked out this time, I've been keeping an eye on your progress. I think that your approach is really pragmatic, you're already talking about the next cycle which I think is a good sign. Do however give yourself a bit of time out. Enjoy some nice food and drink, time to do things you enjoy and a happy christmas and before you know it, you'll be doing it again!!

Great news next time is that you don't have all the awful stimulation stuff to go through again. I've never had a frozen cycle as never had anything to freeze - but I hear of so many ladies getting pg from frozen cycles, I guess the thought process is that if they can survive being frozen then thawed, they must be strong little suckers!!! Next time you'll hopefully be more prepared and relaxed having been through a whole cycle - and you have so many frozen embryos, 7 blastocysts I think you said? That is really exceptional , I don't think I've ever heard anyone have that many - and I've had 5 rounds of IVF over 2 years!!!

- and its finally worked for me, so far at least! If it can work for me, it can work for anyone - don't give up and stay as strong as you've been so far. Hope to hear from you when you've ha a little break - and fun!! xxxx

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I really sorry to hear that Danielle. Do as Treacle says though take time out & enjoy Christmas and relax. X

[Sarahlf]

Hi Danielle my first ivf never worked I had two embryo put back but had no frozen ones but on my second round of ivf we were more successful and have just celebrated our daughters 1st birthday so stay positive I had 3 frozen embryo on second cycle left but chose to donate to research to help other couples become parents. Wishing u all the luck in 2014 xx

[Kat2013]

So sorry your still with in a chance first one is a test run and you are a lucky lady next step with no drugs wish you both all the luck xxx

[Pammi912]

Hi Danielle,

So sorry to hear that it didn't work this time, but I'm sure it will next time. Have a great Christmas. Xx

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So sorry, and for your little embie. I'm glad you're already looking forward to the FET. Enjoy Christmas and give your body and mind a rest, that will help with the next phase of treatment. I'm guessing the drug protocol is much more sympathetic next time around which will hopefully make all the distance as your body will be in tip top form. Good luck, thinking of you. xxx

[Mangwana]

I am sorry Danielle, all the best with your next round. I go in on Monday which marks the end of my 2 ww. I had 2 pregnancy tests Monday and Tuesday both negative. So I am not holding my breath just waiting to see the clinic and embrace my truth. What I know is that it is all ultimately in God's hands. I have been following your posts and find your attitude amazing!