Ok well since finding our that I can't conceive a child without help I was told I needed to lose 5 stone to have ivf on the NHS. I thought that this would give me all the motivation I needed. I was wrong a kit if things has got in the way arguments with my husband a issues that happened which I do not have the heart to talk about. How difficult am I finding this right now very. If one more family member says oh how's the weight lose going or when u going to start a family I might just break down and scream.