End of the line for us. Feeling sad

[paeroking]

Another negative preggy test.

[piperfan33]

So sorry - the disappointment and pain must be overwhelming. I hope you get lots of support. X

[katiejane74656]

Sorry to hear that. It's a very difficult time now. I don't have any magical words except that it just takes time. I'm still 'mourning' a year on, only not as bad. Take time to pamper yourself - it's ok and completely natural to be on that emotional rollercoaster. Let friends and family help you through it - don't shut them out. Take care and keep us all updated. X

[PokedandProdded]

Oh I am so sorry, there's nothing so disappointing in this world.

It's important to do what you feel is right. Stay in bed, eat an entire box of terry's all gold or spend a week watching the entire 'Will and Grace' box set, it doesn't matter. Don't be tempted to put on a brave face just yet, let yourself grieve.

Personally, I found my family and friends all wanted to comfort me but I couldn't bear the thought of having them see me so upset - I can't stand all that glib 'it'll get better' nonsense. So you make the rules. Have pudding first.

I'll be thinking of you, sending big hugs xxx

L

X

[pollypopps]

I am so sorry, sending you big hugs, and I agree just look after yourself, do what you feel like doing, and let yourself grieve

xx

[paeroking]

Thanks peeps. I was a bit emotional when I did test but I kind of knew it was negative. I have to wait upto 6 weeks to see consultant at clinic, I was hoping it would be sooner as I want these fibroids out. I know my family and friends care but I can't stand a fuss, I would rather be left alone.

[wanttobemumagainat38 in reply to paeroking]

sorry to hear this news paeroking, its not fair is it!! i've got my follow up tmo but soooooooo dont want to go co we wont be doing it again so whats the point!! Everyone else seems to have forgotten about what we've been going through but i am really struggling xxxx

[Noper]

Dear P,

I'm so sorry. I'd been really hoping that you would get a positive result. Like the others say, try to look after yourself and give yourself some time out if you can. Love N.

[paeroking]

Thanks guys. At the moment all the drugs are still in my system so bodily things are still same. I have had the odd blubber as it is hard not to especially when constant reminders of what I have been through. All the anxieties have built up which I feel in my chest its like as if there isn't enough oxygen in my lungs.

[Tracey34]

So so sorry to hear that you got a negative result i can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling. Nothing anyone can say will take away the pain you are feeling but try to look after yourself and hopefully in time the pain will lessen. Lots of love and hugs xx

[pumpkin1]

I'm so sorry it didn't work for you. It's the most horrible feeling ever and anyone that hasn't been through ivf just won't understand. We went away for a couple of days, just the two of us, after our negative result. Like you say you still have all the drugs in your system which makes it harder and there seems to be babies and pregnant woman everywhere you look. I agree with everyone else, take time out for yourself, pamper yourself and do things that make you smile and feel good normally. Eat lots of chocolate lol. Take care and big hugs to you xx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry to hear about your negative test result. Sending all my love x

[paeroking]

Thank you all for your kind thoughts.

[caz777]

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[paeroking]

Thank you caz777 I will look for this book.

[caz777]

hi paeroking, just thought I would let you know that Nerida walker also has a website. On there you will see many amazing testimones of couples both male and female who were told it was medically impossible for them to have children, but they took the promises of God and are now joyful mothers of children, psalm 113:9. The website has a lot of information and support and helps you through the process of walking by faith. I myself can testify of Gods faithfulness in this area and know that without God I would have remained barren. God Bless Caz777