*UPDATE: brown turned to light pink turned to red this morning. My third miscarriage š
Hello,
Iām not having the best of days, mentally. I think I am just so very triggered by this pregnancy, itās bought back so many painful memories of my first pregnancy for some reason and this time I donāt have the safety net of my IVF clinic as it was a natural surprise (after 17 months of trying) pregnancy.
Tonight Iāve just had a little bit of brown mucus in my knickers, and ever so slightly when Iāve wiped. I know thatās a sign of old blood and I know it can mean lots of things but Iām fearing the worst and feel like my gut instinct is telling me this isnāt good.
I donāt have a midwife yet, and tbh the GP hasnāt been the most helpful since me telling them Iām pregnant and my history. Iām wondering whether to try and get my early scan scheduled for the 8th moved to tomorrow just so I know whatās happening.
There isnāt much point in this message, I just need to write it down because Iāve no one to really talk to about this. My husband is great but heās anxious too given what weāve been through previously. Xx
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Hey lovely - congrats on your pregnancy & sorry you're finding it difficult.
I had brown/pink discharge for 5 days around 5 weeks mark. It was nerve-wrecking but all was well.
I think you should do whatever you think is best for you, but I guess the danger of having the scan too early (before 7 weeks) is that the result will be inconclusive, and this might be an additional source of stress and uncertainty for some, than a much wanted relief.
Monitoring your blood HCG levels is another alternative if you have access to blood tests, which is the most reliable & conclusive method at this stage to know how the pregnancy is progressing. It got me through the wait until the next scan in early days.
Iāve booked an early scan for tomorrow, and I know itās very early but Iām hoping itāll show at least something is there. Iām supposed to be at a wedding on Saturday and I just donāt feel Iāll be able to relax and enjoy myself if Iām still experiencing the brown mucus, itās just just my anxiety off all over again.
Pregnancy after two miscarriages, even with a successful pregnancy (so lucky) is just so overwhelming, more than I was expecting it to be xx
Thank you. I cancelled the scan as my bleeding became heavier. I called the EPU and theyāre bringing me in for a scan Sunday to check Iāve had a complete miscarriage š¢
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