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After a horrible weekend where I had constant lower back pain followed by a bleed (turned bright red, filled pads, all the bad stuff 😫) I was 💯 convinced we were out. It was exactly the same as my previous loss but with more pain. We even had a talk and decided we just couldn’t keep doing this and it was time to move on from IVF.

Yesterday went for my scan to confirm the loss and was amazed to see a perfect tiny bean, in the right place, measuring 6 weeks, with a perfect heartbeat. 🥰🥰

And breath! Only another 34 weeks to get through 😬😵‍💫🤪

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zytajones

I'm so happy for you and wish you a speedy pregnancy with no more "surprises" :)

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Solly-44 in reply to zytajones

Thank you! Yep, I’m hoping for uneventful now! Xx

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Star241

That’s brilliant news xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to Star241

Thanks lovely xx

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SK73

Such amazing news🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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Solly-44 in reply to SK73

Thank you love, 🤯🥰 xx

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HollyT7

So happy to see this xxx ❤️❤️

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Solly-44 in reply to HollyT7

Thanks Holly 🥰 how are you doing? You must be coming up to your 20 week scan?? Xx

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HollyT7 in reply to Solly-44

I'm 25 weeks now 😳 How mad is that! I've officially had all my 'normal' scans...now we're onto growth scans to monitor how this little beast is doing! I'm hoping for an actual baby and not something that resembles toddler this time 😂

You will soon be catching up in the blink of an eye so beware, having a toddler makes you take you eye off the ball and before you know it BAM your over halfway and realise you better start ordering things 😂 xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to HollyT7

Oh 🤦‍♀️ I have no concept of time 😂 wow that is flying by!

Was your first a chunk then? Mine was too, apparently 2nd babies are usually bigger 🤣🤪🥺 xxx

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HollyT7 in reply to Solly-44

he was 8lb 11 so not too big but they made out I was giving birth to a sumo, and gosh was he long, no wonder he didn't move that much. my other half's side are 10+lbs so I'm hoping my genetics have pushed through and we're 6ish lbs 😂xx

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Sweethear

Am so happy to see that everything is okay really really happy for you. Wishing you all the very best

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Solly-44 in reply to Sweethear

Thanks so much lovely! Xx

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Millbanks

Oh mate ❤️❤️❤️

It’s not easy is it! I had a subchorionic haematoma at 17 weeks and it was all very stressful. But we made it xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to Millbanks

I remember! Yeah it’s just terrifying to see isn’t it? Still, we trek on! Xxx

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Hoop123

Such great news ❤️❤️❤️ I'm so happy for you! Fingers crossed for a smooth road ahead xx

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Solly-44 in reply to Hoop123

Thanks love and thanks again for your help the other day 💜💜 I was in a real state and it helped.

Yep here’s hoping for smooth & boring! Xx

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FrancyItaly

Awww lovely 😍 I was waiting to hear from you. What was the bleed for? Hopefully now a smooth journey ahead xxxx

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Solly-44 in reply to FrancyItaly

No idea?? She said there is no bleed visible around the embryo. Maybe we’ll get more info from the NHS scan 🤷‍♀️ she suggested implantation bleeding but it was honestly a lot (like filling pads) with pain so seems unlikely to me but who knows! Xxx

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Redsequin

Oh my god: so much stress for you to go through! So glad bean is, in fact, settled in fine. Xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to Redsequin

Hopefully it continues! 🤞 hope you’re well lovely xx

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Littlepeax

Oh Solly how stressful, so glad everything is ok though 💫❤️ baby is getting nice and snug 🤗 so happy for you xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to Littlepeax

Thanks darling! Xx

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Fudge1980

Aww how wonderful 💗 such good news! Make sure you rest and be kind to yourself. Little one will be growing and getting comfy xx

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Solly-44 in reply to Fudge1980

Ah thanks lovely 💜 xx

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PenguinBlue

Oh such fab news, so glad to hear and wish you well for the rest of your pregnancy! X

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Solly-44 in reply to PenguinBlue

Thanks so much! 🥰 xx

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Gempuddleduck

Amazing news!!! Yey!! Xxxx

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Cinderella5

Awesome pic lovely!!🤩😍🥳🤯😘xxx

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Sexy376

Well done hun lovely clear picture xxx

This is such great news! After such a scary experience, so nice to hear of such good news!xx

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BettyBe

Great news!! Congratulations!! 💖

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Eternalwarrior

Fantastic news, lovely!! I wish you a healthy and smooth rest of your pregnancy! xxx

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