8th day post embryo transfer still negative urine pregnancy test.

[Sayusayme]

8 the day post second embryo transfer fet and still negative urine pregnancy test .

Looks like this one is another failure too

Haha ha

Please like laughing at my self ....

I can see what universe wants but I am desperately dying to gift my hubby with a cute baby but universe is not letting me ha ha ha ...

My life I am in fight with universe nature crazy ..... Huh....and the thing which make me feel bad is nothing is in my control

Oh what a lonely painful journey 💔💔💔...is there any cure to it ...sometime I feel I should just come in terms with universe and stay childless but when I see my hubby's face I feel like trying again and again.....crushed in between😯😯😯

[Chloettc2020]

Oh hun I’m sorry. Praying for you to get a positive 🤞🏻🤞🏻😘😘

[Sayusayme in reply to Chloettc2020]

Thanx dear

You guys are my family now..

[fertilitystruggle]

Hey Sayusayme,

I completely understand how you feel, I know it must be horrible to have to go through the same process again and again. Mentally and physically it becomes torture and almost an addiction which you need to badly! Just wanting something so badly and seeing people around you to have that blessing hurts a lot. I have a lot of nephew and nieces, recently my sister announced she’s having another child and as much as happy I am for her I can’t help but feel so sad.

You are not alone in this I promise there are so many people out there in this world who are going through exactly what you are! You will get through this just never ever give up! You have come such a long way! But I will say maybe take a break as your body does need a break and you have been through a lot x

<3

[Sayusayme in reply to fertilitystruggle]

Thanx dear

Your words are like eye tonic for me so calming...and I will try not to give up... again

[fertilitystruggle in reply to Sayusayme]

We all give up, so don't beat your self about it! I give up nearly every single night and then try to pick my self up each morning. Just try and take things easy and maybe try and go on a little break xxx

[Sayusayme in reply to fertilitystruggle]

Thanx dear

Please stay in touch I need a friend like you ❤️❤️ in my life

Thx thx

[fertilitystruggle in reply to Sayusayme]

That is so sweet!

We all need someone and honestly this whole process can become a very lonely and dark place. I will always be here will defo let you know if i have any good news and you do the same!

Feel free to message at any time you need someone to have a chat with or having a bad day!!

❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ x

[Littlepeax in reply to fertilitystruggle]

Lovely message, so true ♥️

[Littlepeax]

It's so hard isnt it 😔 I'm 8dpt today too. My OTD is tomorrow although I dont see the point in going for a blood test I know I'm not pregnant. Negative test yesterday. Best to have a little break and enjoy life for what it is. But never give up 🥰💫🙏

[fertilitystruggle in reply to Littlepeax]

Hey, I'm 9 day today and i did a pregnancy test on day 5 (biggest mistake ever).

It was negative and i cried my eyes out for the next 3 days but honestly don't lose hope until the very last minute.

I have read so many stories over the past few days about so many peoples experiences. A lot of the woman did their pregnancy test day 9/10 and it was negative but when they went for the blood test it was positive! They say its to do with the hormone levels.

Don't lose hope, i know its easier said harder done but we are on the same boat. I have lost a lot of hope too but then I keep praying to god to just give me this one wish and I don't want anything after!

Just believe and even if it doesn't work this time, lets try again!

We will get our self a baby lol ❤️

[Sayusayme in reply to fertilitystruggle]

Thx friend ❤️❤️❤️

[Littlepeax in reply to fertilitystruggle]

That would be a miracle ♥️🙏🙏♥️

[Sayusayme in reply to Littlepeax]

Oh dear I am so sorry😔😔

[KayCan]

Sending you some positivity, fingers crossed for you. All us ladies deserve to be mummies we fight so hard for it 🤞💕

[Sayusayme in reply to KayCan]

💕💕💕💕

[Rainbowhope]

I can hear how hurt you are and I'm so sorry. At least looking at your husband gives you strength. Sending all my love and best wishes to you. Xxx

[Purplis]

... The Universe, nature, whatever you call it isn't mean and wicked. If anything, it shields us from many unpleasant things. It's like a mum refusing a breastfeeding baby real food. No matter how the baby cries, any loving mum wouldn't indulge cos she knows the consequences which can be very dire to first the baby and the mum; and its only a matter of time, baby will eat real food like the rest of the world 😍

"No" oftentimes mean wait a little while". So yes, like the baby we all cry and throw our tantrums but dear Sayusayme mother isn't wicked.

... Everything in nature reproduces - even the unwanted weeds! You were born with a womb so why would the Universe or nature say no child for you. Hurt you may, cry a bit and rest the body but never let the wrong thoughts take hold, it's the worst malignant poison on this ivf/fertility journey.

P. S. I had a negative beta test results today but glad for the chance to try again.

Sending you hugs and love. xxx

[Sayusayme in reply to Purplis]

Hey dear

Nice thoughts....

Thx for writing such long message to me ..💕💕💕

It's just my feelings at times tell me not to go against universe and to come in terms with it....it's such mixed feelings...

I can feel the gravity when I try again n again against the resistance but we as human have no choice but to keep trying n trying...

Thx dear and am so sorry for your negative pregnancy test

I have my blood test tomorrow and will update you but I know it's negative...