Hi, my daughter is 4 and a half and has recently started reception class. She's never had a totally dry day or night since we started potty training 2 years ago but since starting school it's got a lot worse. Ive had a meeting with her teacher and headmistress to express my concerns about how wet she is every day (sometimes down to her feet) but they said they can't advise on this.
Ive sent her in wearing absorbent pants with spares in her bag but she wets right through these as well and it doesn't seem to bother her at all. Last week i just kind of gave in and am now sending her in wearing pull up nappies as i can't stand the thought of her being wet all day in the cold weather and possibly getting an infection from it too.
I went to my GP yesterday and he told me to visit this website. She's also had urine tests to check for infection which are all clear and is not in pain. She does hate being asked to go to the toilet and kicks off massively when i ask her to go every couple of hours.
I am genuinely out of ideas and i don't know if the school is meant to be helping or not?! Any advice would be great, thank you