Hi everyone, I've just joined the forum so thought I'd introduce myself and why I'm here.... after 3 years of unsuccessfully toilet training my youngest daughter I am waiting for a referral to the eneurisis clinic. I have tried EVERYTHING to get her dry with absolutely no success. I have spoken to lots of health visitors and the gp with no real help. Finally got referred to the hospital about a year ago and my daughter had various tests and scans that were all clear. We were then referred to the eneurisis clinic in june but the waiting list is 36 weeks.... I am tearing my hair out. School are finding it hard as she wets around 3 times a day and won't tell anyone when she's wet (she is the same, if not worse at home). They take her to the toilet every 20 minutes and she STILL wets herself 2 or 3 times. I am now seriously struggling.... Is there ANYTHING else I can do??????? I've just seen the padded pants on Eric's website, does anyone have them?I'm worried about her getting infections etc... But she's at school and I'm worried about her getting picked on for wetting herself......... I worry about taking her to places incase she wets herself, I feel like people judge me (and her) for her not being dry, and if one more (well meaning) person suggests trying a star chart I swear I don't know what I'll do....!!!
In short, I am broken..... Please can someone tell me I'm not alone.......?