Had an awful experience at my gynaecology appointment yesterday, and just feel really upset and deflated about it.
I was referred to the gynaecologist under the 2 week wait referral because ultrasound picked up an endometrioma, and my bloods came back with super high CA125.
Gynaecologist was awful. Refused to treat the endometrioma because I don't have children, and because it's "painless". Insisted I should be on contraception, when I've gone through every type of contraception four times, and it's done nothing to help me. Explained I'd had two miscarriages this year, and was told "the first ones never stick"...
Repeatedly spoke over me, wouldn't discuss anything other than the pill. Asked about a laparoscopy, excision, or chemical menopause as options, and she just laughed and said I need to have children first.
She also completely rubbished the cancer risk, told me I shouldn't have been referred under the two week wait because I'm blocking appointments for those who need them, and was just really dismissive and horrible about the pain and heavy bleeding I've had since I was 13.
I ended up walking out of the appointment because I was just too upset and distressed to continue (I'm autistic and have a huge phobia of anything medical).
Are all gynaecologists like this? It's really knocked my confidence and trust now, and I'm at a loss on what to do now. I don't even know if I'll be offered another appointment or be discharged back to my GP.
Can I request a second opinion or asked for my treatment to be moved to another Gynaecology clinic? If so, who from?
I was so hopeful and feeling positive that things were moving forward, and I just feel like that appointment was a waste of time because the gynaecologist refused to treat me for my endometrioma.