Giving up!

[Ecfwans1]

Hi All hoping for some advice as i camt take amymore. My pain and bleeding is now horrendous to the point i got sent hone from work. And i have my uncles wedding on saturday. I have the progesterone tablets and am on pregabalin and oromorph but nothing is killing my pain i am petrified i will bleed theough or spoil everyomes day by being in too much pain. Please help me xx

[Brambledoggy]

I don’t feel like my reply will be the one you want but I want you to know I can massively relate. I have missed so many, many important dates due to not actually even being able to leave the house, or the so called comfort of my own loo and bathroom. Xmas days, birthdays, weddings, funerals. Even HOLIDAYS!!!!! No painkiller I’ve ever had has ever done a THING to touch my pain. You’re not alone. Sometimes it’s better to stay at home and hope that family and friends will understand. Sometimes the huge mental stress of having to be at a function acting normal, outweighs the need to be there. It’s no fun to flood through clothes, be doubled over in pain, vomiting and crippled with pain while friends are making shapes on the dance floor!!!!. I know there are other ladies on here that are literally house bound some days. Be kind to yourself, ditch the guilt. No one else is in your position. Others may say differently. Finding a solution to your horrendous pain is your next priority. Sending a big hug. Nina.

[Ecfwans1 in reply to Brambledoggy]

Thank you so much Nina it is nice to know am not alone. I have missed so many events myself. I'm hoping things settle down so am not house bound and i dont miss there special day xxx