Coil, Anxiety & Just feeling crappy!!

[Paigelouisex]

Hey all...

Today’s a really low day for me 😒 Pains are awful and nobody seems to understand. I had my lap just over a week ago and a coil put in and now everyone thinks I should be ‘fixed’ when in reality i’m in more pain now than I was before the lap😒.

These pains are so bad i’m in tears 😭.. how can i make them stop?! I’m on codeine and it’s just not working.

Everyone I talk to is just telling me to get the hysterectomy like the doctor has said but I just can’t agree to it.. I’m 20 years old and don’t have any children. My biggest fear has always been not being able to conceive I can’t let them take this away from me 💔.

Now talking to people they are making me worry even more because what they are saying is true.. If i’m i’m so much pain and constantly bleeding how am I going to even have sex to make a baby?! and the honest answer is I really just don’t know anymore 💔 I just feel like my life’s being stripped away day by day and there’s nothing I can do to stop it.

[Penguins_81]

Hi, I’m sorry you’re feeling like this and that you don’t have the support you need. You do t have to have a hysterectomy. Dont let anyone tell you so. After having the lap you will be in pain, after my surgery I was unable to work for ten weeks! The bleeding you are having can be from having the coil put in.

You know your body best, don’t let anyone pressure you into anything especially a decision that has such a huge impact on you life.

Research everything and find what suits you best. Good luck, stay strong and remember that ladies on here are there for you. Xx

[Paigelouisex in reply to Penguins_81]

Thank you so much 🦋 xx

[Anniemag]

Hi

I had first laposcopy and felt great for a couple of years had removal of endemotris - next removal treatment they recommend the coil- which I reluctantly agreed to and woke up feeling awful- constantly down and anxious after- and worse pain - no bleeding but lasted a year before having it removed xx