I'm having a real "I'm totally done with dealing with this" moment today. Ever since my laparoscopy back in May (2018) intercourse has been so painful that I really am not getting any enjoyment out of it.
I try and relax during & make out it's fine / not hurting to my partner, because I know eventually he would just become too scared to even touch me for fear of hurting me. I don't want our relationship to be ruined by this.
Prior to surgery, although I may have felt a bit tender leading up or perhaps straight after my TOM but apart from that there was no pain.. but now, it is every time and it's so intense my breath gets taken away. Is this normal after surgery? It hurts right underneath where my scars are (the left and right side of my abdomen).
If any of you have any advice or could make me feel better about what's happening it would be so appreciated. Thanks x