I've been suffering with symptoms for 10 months, growing pain in my lower right side. It was effecting my uni, I've had to stop working, like you said, pain and bleeding during and after sex - everything seemed to be pointing towards endometriosis.
All my doctors thought so, the nurses were saying I was coming in for the lap, but also for treatment for ends, cysts removal and organs unsticking.
I had my laporoscopy today - and its come back where everything looks "completely perfect" apparently.
They've said from the gyno side everything is done, and I have to go back to my GP. Maybe look at my bowels, or other things, or get referred to a pelvic pain clinic??
I was 99% sure they were going to find something, and was prepared for it to be endometriosis. To leave with nothing been resolved was utterly crushing. I was actually counting on some of the pain been decreased after this op today, to be able to go back to work and try get caught back up with uni, and just not be in pain constantly all day - and now I'm still in the exact same place - I want to cry!!
My mum came for my op, and was sharing a bed with me, (I live in a shared house so there is no spare room for her) and last night she kept snoring so I ended up sleeping on the sofa last night. She'd said she'd sleep on the sofa tonight if she snored, and she did keep snoring but I didn't want to say anything as I felt mean, but then she started moving about in the bed making the mattress jump, and my stomach is excruciating at the minute as it is, and her every move actually felt like sharp stab wounds. I told her it was hurting me and she just stormed downstairs been really arsey. Her iPad pinged and I went to turn it on silent and saw she'd just messaged her partner - also saying to him that I'm in excruciating pain and her moving wasn't helping - but she is now on the sofa and that I am an utter nightmare. Seeing the message above that from when we were waiting in the hospital again this morning she has called me that again to him.
I want to tell her to just go back home now. I feel pretty crushed by that, and that I don't trust anything she has said to me about been up here with me now I know she is talking about me like that to other people. I've only just had the operation today and she's calling me a nightmare because I said I was in pain from her constant moving.
Am I been a nightmare? Or would it be justified for me to just ask her to go. Its really upset me reading that and I don't particularly want that now, and it doesn't even seem like she does.