Is it normal to cry though sex ?

[Brooke23]

Please can some one help me !! Ever time me am my partner have owl time in the bed room ! An start to have sex ! I can not control my tears an I start to get really up set ? It there woman out the that have the Sam thing pls comment thanks xxxx

[Hidden]

I cant say i've cried. But the pain during/after can be horrendous, this has caused me to become quite scared of having sex. Luckily my boyfriend is very understanding of the whole situation so we've cut out sex from the relationship atm until i feel i'm ready.

Maybe this is something you should consider? Have you talked with your partner and do you know the reasons why you do cry?

[Brooke23]

Yea I have spoke to him an we did for 6 months but am not in no pain I just don't no y I cry , I love boy friend vary much !! Thank u for your comment x

[Hidden in reply to Brooke23]

It definitely sounds like an emotional response to some form of trigger then. Maybe you could consider some form of counselling to help find the root of this problem? There are always meds, but i prefer to leave them as a last resort. But the main point is dont ever feel ashamed about it, we're all going through tough times everyone just reacts differently

[Impatient]

I've been in fits of giggles but I can't admit that I have ever cried with emotional happiness as I guess that's what you're describing. If it doesn't cause you pain then just be sure to wipe your eye make up off before sex so you don't end up looking like a panda - but apart from that, crying as an emotional reaction is not wrong, not usual either but if it bothers you too much - speak to you GP as anti-depressants switch off your emotional reaction and responses.

[Blondedia]

Why are you crying, you didn't say?? Are you in pain??

[bingobongo]

I think that it does sound like an emotional response and i also had same issue. Mine was around not being able to conceive and had counselling to help me through this. I meditated and that also helped and now no crying during sex, just soppy films etc

[donger1983]

Hi hun iam the same it does hurt during sex but think yours is emotional thing which can be related to the endo i think, my partner can be sometimes supportive but sometimes he gets frustated lol but yeh go and see gp huni

[Hidden]

Hi,

Would you consider the tears to be cries of joy or fear ?

There,s absolutely nothing wrong with tears of joy as it may just be an overwhelming sense of your emotions you're feeling but if you'd consider your tears to be cries of fear you may need to go and see your G.P as soon as possible so he or she can refer you to a gynecologist.

xx

[Brooke23]

Thank u all so much for your comment it mean a lot !! Am going to my gp in the morning thank u all so much lovey people your are xxxx