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Sex. Yes or No?

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Sheri26 profile image
Sheri26

Depends who it's with !!!! Lol

Who's offering?

No seriously. It's a yes from me!

I just use lots of lube and I'm on top.... as I can control how deep the penetration!

Now, where did I leave my libido?

magnetta profile image
magnetta

I was a definite yes but as time goes on I am more and more put off by the pain. It even hurts to orgasm!!

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ShortStuff88 in reply to magnetta

Hi Magnetta

I couldnt help noticing your comment!! I thought I was the only one. Have you had an explanation for this? My gynae always brushes it off - typical gynae style.

Jodie x

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magnetta in reply to ShortStuff88

Hi Jodie,

No, I didn't think to ask actually! Glad I am not the only one...Does it feel like painful cramping? I suppose we are "contracting" at that point, so if there is an endo patch someone its going to hurt!?x

ShortStuff88 profile image
ShortStuff88 in reply to magnetta

I have two different pains - I have a hot shooting pain which starts near where I think my ovaries are going downwards and inwards then I also have the cramps too! Is this like you? Its ridiculous and not fair! I hate it when the pleasure/pain scale goes in favour of pain grr!! xx

Ahahahaha awesome responses! I dunno, my boyfriend is saying he's more than happy not to have sex until i feel im ready. Its been a couple of months, since then i've had 2 a&e trips and an exploratory lap which was when i was diagnosed. But im just kind of scared of the pain.

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Seriously.... I'm really glad your boyfriend is supportive and patient. My hubby is as supportive in our intimidate life as he is in general...... And that's not at all.

Just try and be careful, you take the lead and control the penetration. Just take your time.

X

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LeyaC in reply to

If you're anticipating pain, that will only make it worse. When I'm nervous about the pain, I am always tense and my partner can't put anything there so I try not to worry about the pain anymore. Make it spontaneous if possible and that will help, good luck!

Leya xx

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squeep

Not for 3 years, but apparently that's not a problem at all and totally manageable with Microgynon (idiot GP)

Haaha :) absolutely love the replies here, ( couldn't say it better myself)

I just wanted to add the decision definitely get better with time as I used bleed nearly every time I had sex with my hubby but I believe we both just didn't allow it to get the best of us!

x

Sheri26 profile image
Sheri26

Hahaaa, I've only found sex painful the last few months, tried but I failed. Thank god there isn't anything wrong with my mouth or hands........to much info !!!!

Oh and Barbara , my friend was on a flight with David Beckham today to Miami xx

in reply to Sheri26

Sheri....... I'm sorry I hate your friend.........

Mr Beckham is mine!

❤️

P.s what have you been doing with your mouth and hands?????? I'm shocked!

in reply to Sheri26

ahahaha oh my! i've never been a fan of using my mouth, i have a horrific gag reflex so im really quite limited as to what i can do!

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Way too much information,...., we are LADIES.... After all !

My Nan use to say that sex was as boring as the ironing. She would tell my granddad to pull her nightie down when he was finished!

X

in reply to Sheri26

Haaaaha Sheri26, waaay too much info here :)

I agree with ickleone as it gives me terrible gag reflex!

x

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Brownlow in reply to Sheri26

He must have had access to the internet on the flight because he's been posting here all day in his vest!

in reply to Brownlow

No Brownlow...., I'm David's PA,,,,, when he's fed up with a bit of posh he comes knocking on my door..... For a taste of a mature and voluptuous lady! X

P.S Some photos of David in the H&M adverts are dangerous to my fragile health. !

Brownlow profile image
Brownlow in reply to

Oh God you're funny! I'm sitting here laughing

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Impatient in reply to Sheri26

LOL - that's what I mean when I tell ladies to avoid painful vaginal sex acts and be more 'inventive' !! Still gets the job done, and all the more satisfying for not leaving you crippled for hours afterwards.

aahahahaha i'm so glad i came back on here to read this! I've come crashing down on a low and crying my eyes out

ShortStuff88 profile image
ShortStuff88

Wow!! Reading this has seriously brightened my day!! Thank you Ladies, haha xx

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ladybird7

Send me a man round so I can see!! Beckham would be great hehe

in reply to ladybird7

Ladybird...... You will have to get passed me first! He belongs to me! ❤️

X

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ladybird7 in reply to

Hehe

Sheri26 profile image
Sheri26

Sorry for to much info, just trying to cheer you all up

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megrave

Am sat smiling my head off. Thanks

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