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one of my friend suffering with different behavior. He abuses his parents badly daily, talk himself and not sleeping enough. Later after he abused, he used to say that he used to say that he could not abuse him and he is not aware that he spoke like


Couple of years back, his mom took him to psychiatric hospital on suggestion given by one of their relative. the reason why he was taken to, he used to scold his father for not continued his studies and not feed him properly since childhood. Because when the financial background of them were poor and put him in a shop after he completes his +12 studies. he worked in couple of years (nearly 4-5 years) and came to home and settled at home and not went for any work. he just eat, sleep and scold his father. it was happend 4-5 years. since he was scolding his father, his mom took him to hospital, medicine was given by doctor after treated him. he had those medicine and he was looking good after had medicine. Before he was lean.

then his mom took him again to hospital and got medicine. when he started having the medicine from second time, started becoming lean and completely became skeleton. Went for check up and it confirmed it is Diabetics. after knowing this, he denied to take medicine for Diabetics to control. It went extreme and got serious. he went in coma and admitted in a hospital. He was treated and discharged after a 15 days of treatment. Doctor suggest him to have insulin on daily basis to control it. Initially he used to have it on daily basis. Later, some days he used to quarrel with their parents (he blames his parent spoiled his health. If they made him studied, he would have not fallen into this situation) and not to have insulin.

it has passed 2 years and now he is abusing their parents badly on these reasons everyday. He is not cooperating them to give a chance for them to take him to hospital for it to get resolution. Days are going on, his parents are suffering badly by his behavior.

Please provide resolution for this. His age now 34, unmarried

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I will be sending you a message later today when I'm home. Can you please keep your eyes open for it?


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You have chosen to send your worry on a site that deals in Diabetes. It is normally caused by insulin deficiency. Insulin is produced in pancreas and is an essential body function. Body ailments require medicine.

The subject is in the domain of Mind. Our inter-personnel relationship is a part of development of Mind. It comes into action when emotions arise. Both positive and negative emotions are part of same mechanism i.e. two sides of a same coin.

What is caused by Mind, has solution in Mind only. Mind is basically charged Memory.

A great Memory base make human superior. Neutral memories keep on working for our day to day need, but All Strong Emotions get ingrained into our memory. These CHARGED MEMORIES decide our behavior and is key to intra-personal relationship. Unless these charged memories are diluted, one cannot escape many difficulties.

One can or decides to take any route. Becoming too much religious (escape route), visiting Spiritual Gurus (finding a support) and meeting Psychiatrist (medical doctor that deal in odd behavior) etc. are possible avenues. All may work bit less or bit more.

I suggest the gentleman takes a TEN DAY course of Vipassana Meditation. It is FREE OF ANY CHARGES and are regularly conducted throughout India. It would tell basics of of Mind and would definitely help. Details are available on internet. Headquarter is at Igatpuri (Maharshtra).

One has to take prior appointment since ten day course has date of commencement/closing. One has to go on appointed day.

It is NOT a religious school. For ten days one has to follow their regimen that includes COMPLETE SILENCE (No talking, reading, writing etc.). Later one can follow his own routine.

It is opined that this Meditation School is dealing with Mind scientifically.



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