Are you a good patient?
As a person already reading these pages is it only a matter of time before you notice signs of some medical condition in yourself.?
But what exactly do we do when we make an appointment to see our regular doctor about some bothersome problem that we know is not life threatening, but which rather bothers us.?
What is being a Good Patient when seeing your doctor.?
A good patient does not bring up things they had read online which worried them.
A good patient accepts the doctor’s conclusions and does not ask too many questions.
On a recent visit my doctor asked what the problem was and I replied with:-
‘Well, it’s not a big problem, but…….
And the doctor ended up agreeing with me. “It’s probably nothing,” I was told “It’ll probably go away on its own.”
I nodded and smiled as if saying ‘ I thought as much ‘ .
‘ But in my head, I was thinking, ‘It’s not sure that it really is nothing, and it might not go away.’
Next week things were worse, and I telephoned and arranged to see a different doctor at the same practice.
Later that day the doctor listened to my problem and said, “No, it’s not nothing. It’s something.”
The doctor then made arrangements for me to see a specialist and perhaps have a CAT scan.
I walked out of this doctors surgery feeling vindicated thinking that this doctor really listens..
And perhaps I lost a little bit of trust in my regular doctor.
But later when thinking about this event I began to understand that perhaps I was guilty of trying to be too much of a Good Patient. After all, my regular doctor had just listened to what I said and this was NOT THE COMPLETE TRUTH.
I said, “It’s not a big problem” when I should have said “I am worried about this.”
I said, “The pain seems to fade away,” when I should have said “ It really hurts most of the time.”
I said, “ I doubt this is important,” when I should have said “ I have read on the Health Unlocked pages that this can lead to bigger problems.”
On these Health Unlocked pages we write about new research into drugs, complicated chemo therapy options and many other things outside of our control.
But we patients often put up barriers that prevent our getting the services we need.
To be a ‘ Good Patient ‘ we have to be totally truthful and give a full explanation of why we are there. Anything else wastes the doctors time and we do ourselves no favours at all.
We must be the truthful patient. The patient who’s not afraid to say what they really think, even if that may be wrong or seem to be overreacting.