I woke this morning after having a dream...

[chloe40]

About my Mum, this is the very first time I've dreamt of her and it disturbed me strangely enough.

I have always hoped I would dream of Mum or Dad but .....

Have you dreamt of your loved one?

x

[Caza]

always. I dream every night and remember them. I can also interact with them which is apparently rare. I was having a lovely dream the other night. I was abroad & was walking along the rd when I saw my sister sat on a stall up at a bar with a glass of wine. The sun was shining & the sea was a clear blue. Everything was perfect. I was so pleased to see her. I gave her a big hug & then went & spoilt it all by saying -your not meant to be here your dead Woke up crying. This often happens with both my sister & my daughter. Why can’t I just enjoy being them.

What disturbed you Chloe?

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Caza]

My, that's does seem rare Caza

What a lovely dream though, perfect as you say if you hadn't mentioned her death. It is amazing how our minds work, fascinating really.

It wasn't a horrible dream, stupidly I'd asked her to undo my knitting as I'd made a mistake. When I woke I was very upset about it, I've never dreamt of either of them before, so I should have been pleased but I was thinking why now? I heard a stupid saying years ago, that if you dream of past family members, they're waiting for you, so I thought omg they're waiting for me! and it scared me, how daft is that?

x

[Caza in reply to chloe40]

Pretty daft!!! I think my girls will be too busy partying to be sitting around waiting for me!!

Know what you mean though. I once read that if you go to bed thinking of your past loved ones then they will visit you & put something in your hand. So off to bed I went thinking of my daughter sure enough she came & put something in my hand & then she left. I looked down at my hand & it was bleeding she’d put a very prickly rose in my hand. Not sure what that was meant to mean but I didn’t try it again!

[Bingofox007]

I’m alway sad the next day if I dream about my husband, even if was a nice dream. It just adds to my missing him. I often dream of my grandparents. My last dream of my husband he was cold and scared and didn’t want to leave me, no comfort at all. Yours sounded a lovely dream, wanting your mums help. I hope you can reflect on it and feel comfort, she would have helped with yr knitting. I don’t think it means your times nearly up tho dreaming about her, just she’s in your thoughts and always in yr heart. Take care 🦊x

[Caza in reply to Bingofox007]

That’s a sad dream 😔. I hate sad dreams it unsettles me for the rest of the day

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Caza]

Oh yes, it would me too!

x

[chloe40 Administrator]

Oh dear Bingofox007

That must have been upsetting for you. It sounds as though you dream about your husband quite often, so I hope you have some positively happy and comforting dreams too

Thank you x

[kenster1 Volunteer]

yes many times and woke up tearful after som of them.

[Caza in reply to kenster1]

Yes, me too Kenny