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Hole in my chest

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I feel a hole in my chest where my heart used to be.

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I`m sorry to hear that has something happened.

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Downinil in reply tokenster1

I’m just feeling the grief from two deaths in my family more today than usual.

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kenster1Volunteer in reply toDowninil

I was feeling a bit like this over Christmas but I dragged myself up again as our loved ones would hate to see us struggling.

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Downinil

How did you manage to drag yourself up?

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kenster1Volunteer in reply toDowninil

didn`t want my hurt being visible to my kids I visited the graveyard and that helped and touching the only picture of my son and mum helped sort of felt like they guide me through the rough days.

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chloe40Administrator

So sad to read this .

Sending love and support Downinil

Chloe

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Downinil in reply tochloe40

Thank you so much, Chloe!

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Caza in reply toDowninil

I know this feeling so well. You just have to go with it knowing that the good days will return. Do what feels best for you. I always go for a long walk or a swim which helps me. A dark cinema crap tv a book if your able to take it in. You take care. We’re all here for you. Big hugs

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