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What are doing to help you through the difficult weeks ahead.

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As I won't be mixing this year, I am making preparations to keep myself

occupied during the festivities. Have you any ideas to help those of us 'that are not doing anything'?

So far I have some volunteer training to do.

I've bought extra books to read during this time.

?Maybe be I'll pick up my knitting.

Worst ways, I'll have a blitz and sort out. :-(

Chloe

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Skyp profile image
Skyp

Hi Chloe. Nothing like a good blitz and sort out😁I did that few weeks ago but I'm sure I could find more. I also have to do some on line training as I do voluntary work... But I keep putting it off 🤔

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chloe40Administrator in reply toSkyp

Hi Skyp

Ha ha! I remember you did a blitz not long ago.

Online training, yep, I know it well and I :-( it ugh!

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Sandradsn

I like to lose myself in a book.I would read all day if I could. Crochet and jigsaw puzzles I enjoy too.Its good to get out for a walk,fresh air can do wonders.

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Hi Sandradsn

Sounds like you're all set up :-) lovely

and a nice crisp walk will do wonders, enjoy.

<3

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Greyone

Hi Chloe - I was going to post this in its own right but your question is so appropriate I would like to share this with everyone and hope it will inspire everyone to share something similar:

Yesterday during dinner, an old memory from my childhood resurfaced.

Listening to a local radio station, the DJ played Charles Aznavour singing Hier encore.

A song and singer that has always haunted my memory. I can only just recall seeing him on what I am sure was many television appearances singing this song in French or English.

I managed to find several videos of him singing both renditions and copies of the lyrics.

The words truly resonate with me and I think the song represents what I want to feel. The nostalgia without regret.

Below I have included the lyrics I found for all to enjoy.

Yesterday Again

Yesterday when I was young

The taste of life was sweet as rain upon my tongue

I teased at life as if it were a foolish game

The way the evening breeze may tease a candle flame

The thousand dreams I dreamed, the splendid things I planned

I always built, alas, on weak and shifting sand

I lived by night and shunned the naked light of day

And only now I see how the years ran away

Yesterday, when I was young

So many drinking songs were waiting to be sung

So many wayward pleasures lay in store for me

And so much pain my dazzled eyes refused to see

I ran so fast that time and youth at last ran out

I never stopped to think what life was all about

And every conversation I can now recall

Concerned itself with me, me and nothing else at all

Yesterday the moon was blue

And every crazy day brought something new to do

I used my magic age as if it were a wand

And never saw the waste and emptiness beyond

The game of love I played with arrogance and pride

And every flame I lit too quickly, quickly died

The friends I made all seemed somehow to drift away

And only I am left on stage to end the play

There are so many songs in me that won't be sung

I feel the bitter taste of tears upon my tongue

The time has come for me to pay for yesterday

When I was young

Young, young...

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chloe40Administrator in reply toGreyone

Hi Greyone

Oh wow, how well I remember this song and Charles Aznavour, I just loved his voice.

I can well understand how this has 'haunted your memories'

It's so beautiful, thank you for taking the trouble to post the lyrics.

I think this would make a great new thread.

Can't wait, it will be great :-)

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Turnipgirl

I had a right good blitz and a sort out just before I moved back in May!

What I intend to do is take things a day at a time and carry on with my swimming when I can and have a break from job hunting as its been getting me down and I will come back and try again when I'm ready.

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Sorry to read about job hunting, but a break is the best way.

Enjoy your time

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Turnipgirl in reply tochloe40

What that was about was I had a horrible interview Tuesday just gone when they asked me did I have any children at interview which I believe in this day and age is illegal and also questions about health before a job offer as well.

I had my covid booster jab on Wednesday morning and had a sore arm afterwards but that has settled now and yesterday I got invited to an interview next Thursday at 11.30am and said yes I will go as there's nothing to lose by trying!

I'm glad I saw what the place I interviewed at on Tuesday was really like before it was too late and papers were signed and I was happy when they said I hadn't got the job with them!

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chloe40Administrator in reply toTurnipgirl

Hi Turnipgirl

No, they shouldn't have asked those questions!

I hope your arm is better soon.

Very good luck on Tuesday, do let us know how it goes x

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Turnipgirl in reply tochloe40

Good news as I got back on the horse this lunchtime and applied for some more jobs so we will see how things pan out.

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All the best.

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Vasiliki99

Just bear it all really

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Yes, mostly that’s what we have to do but you’re not alone.

Take care and best wishes

Chloe

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