Lost in grief

[Sablegirl]

Hi, my 1st post here.

My 17yr old kitty, Sid, slipped away Monday night. I’m so lost & not used to this deep grief for a long long time.

[kenster1 Volunteer]

hey I am very sorry to hear that wow 17 that's a great age and many fun memories to have.anytime I lose a dog I am completely heartbroken so my my heart goes out to you.i always feel empty without a pet usually a dog and always go out straight away and get another.

[chloe40 Administrator]

Hi Sablegirl

Welcome to our Community.

Really so sorry that you've lost your dear companion. It's just as painful as losing a friend {{{hugs}}} they're with us almost every hour of the day, so they are very much missed. I wish I could offer you some comfort but I will say, you're not alone on this forum as many of us have lost our loved pets. Do stay with us and post whenever you wish, there is always someone to answer.

Chloe x

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Hi Sablegirl , I am so so sorry to hear about the passing of your dear kitty Sid. What a lovely photo of the two of you. No one can take away the pain of your loss. We love our pets completely and our hearts are broken when it is time for them to leave us. I hope in time that memories of the precious time you shared will help you through.

Take good care Sablegirl, it is ok to cry. We are always here,

Lottie

[DavidS61]

Hi Sablegirl. My sincere condolences to you. We had our 18 year old cat put to sleep on Thursday so I understand how you may be feeling right now. At the end of the day, when a family member dies, its not easy and there will be so many different emotions you will go through. We share your grief, so we are here for you. Its a great place for support. You have my sympathy and keep talking to us it will help.

[Sablegirl]

Thank you all for responding!

DavidS61 I am so sorry to hear that you’re feeling this grief of a family member, too! Yes, I’m very much awash with the roller coaster of pain, and at moment just want to hideout in my own space and sleep/grieve for the time being. S

[Sablegirl]

I’m so sorry for your more recent loss, DavidS61! I’m just not feeling well. This roller coaster of pain and grief has me depressed and wanting to isolate. Not very good company at all. Plus I’m physically exhausted from 3days of round the clock care and a lot of lost sleep...which makes my mind start crumbling quickly almost faster than anything else.

[DavidS61 in reply to Sablegirl]

Hi Sablegirl, how are you feeling now? I was thinking about you and just wanted to check in with you. Tpeople say time heals but its not an illness. Let your mind and body do what it wants to do. Life wil be different and the memories will always be with you. Start to go for a walk even if its around your garden( if you have one) . Keep talking in the forum. Put a silly film on, dance silly to some loud music, cry, laugh and talk. Its some of the best medicine i have ever taken. We are here for you. Take care and big hugs.

[Catwoman2018]

Hi Sablegirl, my heart goes out to you at this very sad time. It's a beautiful pic of you both. He did have a long life and I'm sure you have many precious memories from all your time together. I found it very hard when I lost a cat aged 14, she was like my child and I really struggled. My late partner bought me a soft toy which looked identical to her and I cuddled and held it and it really helped me. Was over ten years ago, and the toy is still on my bed, my 6 year old cat cuddles up to it! Sending you big hugs and I'm here anytime you want to talk, it does help. xx

[Sablegirl in reply to Catwoman2018]

Thank you for sharing this with me, it does help!