Please help.

[Pattipa]

Hello. Thanks for having me! I'm stuck in a bad bad situation. I have been ill for 3 years now into my 4th year of illness and things are so very bad. I'm suffering systemically now, in the beginning it started with inflammation burning pain in my left pelvis this pain never left.! I have body rashes hands, ankles, torso, bottom. I'm suffering with tachycardia, anorexia (due to pain and nausea) many vowel issues, muscle joints are being thrashed all over my body. Neuropathy. Hands feel like Ive smashed them off walls every day. It's your lea of pain attacking my organs. My lungs are being battered now liver for a couple of months and spleen feels totally stitched almost called an ambulance the other night. Here's the thing.. my fiancé left me of 3 years out of the blue and 3 weeks later 6 ulcers pop up on my labia. I get tested std clinic 3 times now over a period of 6 months. All negative. Even specific tests for syphilis which I'm highly suspicious of since he had a pigmented rash all over him the whole time we were together that used to go up and down. I have seen tetracycline and doxyxycline in my home in white tubs he was taking. Also there is many other things that I know he has given me a disease as he left me 3 days before I was at a oral surgeon who Ive been on watch and wait with for like 6 months now he is puzzled (cancer surgeon won't biopsy) i find out he has been selling escorting services to men the whole time we were together sooo.. can anyone guide me or help me? My doctors say they are lost and don't know what to do. I'm suffering terribly. Please help me

[gnaturally]

Are you in UK? This may sound really odd but apart from demanding referrals and second opinions..... How about contacting the TV program embarrassing bodies to help? They seem to get to the bottom of things

[Natib]

Surely your doctors have checked your bloods for syphillis and HIV?

[remi2709]

If you are in the UK, think it is best for your GP to refer you to a gynaecologist to get the right treatment. You can also seek advice from your GP on how to treat each ailment that you currently have.

[Olivemay64]

Oh my, you poor thing. The first thing is definately stay away from boyfriend. I think he could be 90 per cent of your infections. I can't offer immediate hope,but now he has gone many things might just fade away. It might have been a good thing to call an ambulance when you was in so much pain they may have been able to put you right.

Can you try to trust the fact that all your sti tests have come back negative,and put that worry to the back of your mind.

Please try to eat a healthy diet of nutrition and protein. It doesn't have to be loads but by not eating you are encouraging your anorexia. If you really can't eat I suggest a slim fast or similar three times a day. It has all the nutrition you need.

I can see why you are so upset and I think your problems are not helped by this anxiety you are suffering. Get out in the fresh air and walk for 20 minutes every day.

Do not despair, my love. Things may be entirely different in a few months.

I am not a doctor and have no medical knowledge except what I,ve picked up.

[Johart85]

This is not meant to offend but have you been for councilling at all? You must be so stressed with everything going on and this will undoubtedly cause your symptoms to be much worse. Our bodies are funny things and there are links to IBD, skin rashes, eczema, pain and more from stress and depression. I think although it may be long process you would benefit greatly from speaking to a professional about how you are feeling.

For the rash on your hand. Get something like e45 cream, cetraben cream etc and try to apply every hour if possible for four or five days then if it settles maintain after each hand wash and morning and night. X

[Hmm-]

Really really bad cause of herpes that has spread maybe I dunno dmsounds madddd. Try getting in a salt bath see if it eases it abit if it does you have your answer....