Hello, thank you for fielding my question.
I have been experiencing testicular pressure and mild pain for the past approximately 4-5 days. Additionally, I feel mild pain on the tip of my penis, and have definitely had to frequently urinate small amounts. There is a minor sense of burning when I need to pass urine, but after passing, this feeling lessens, and doesn't exactly burn AS I urinate. I feel as if my testicles have redness and some swelling. They are somewhat tender to the touch, but don't necessarily have extreme pain or anything like that. Anyway, I have been concerned about this feeling.
Also, in the last 2 days or so, I've noticed that I have been feeling more tired/weak, a bit of a sore throat (have had to clear my throat of phlegm and swallow a lot), with some coughing/sneezing, feeling of fever, as well as some inconsistent muscle and joint pain, particularly in the back and knees, and some stiffness in back, neck and chest. And also, I have had an upset stomach, with some feeling of diarrhea. Could these be signs of something more serious?
About 2-3 days prior to the feeling, I had intercourse with a woman. She gave me protected oral initially, then we had protected intercourse, but during the intercourse, I was getting limp, the condom didn't slip off, but it was loose, so we decided to go back to oral. She gave me protected oral for a while after intercourse, and then gave me unprotected oral. It didn't occur to me that her mouth had been on the condom used during intercourse, and then during unprotected oral. During the unprotected oral, I ejaculated into her mouth. Does this cross-contamination pose a risk, since her vaginal fluids may have been in her mouth?
I underestimated the risk of unprotected oral so I did that, but it was an obvious mistake that I do not intend to repeat. I started to worry about the situation shortly after it happened. I felt like I felt some pain and itching earlier, but very minor and not really noticeable, so I waited.
It has been approximately 8 days overall, and the pain has been on and off, sometimes forgotten, but typically I do notice it, with the feeling increasing overall over the past few days. It has resulted in a lot of discomfort. I am hoping it is not an infection, but I wanted to get your professional opinion.