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I'm Start To Isolate In Life

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I'm tired of trying to be social in life I kept being let down by every one thanks due to my autism, I can't even get a proper job plus even keeping one

I Don't Have Friends and I'm all alone I'm done with real life I want to push people away

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So sorry that you feel like this My son is autistic and went through a very dark time and didn't see any point in going on but now he sees that life is good and full of simple pleasures

People don't understand do they but it's their problem not yours

I hope that you can find happiness and lovely people come into your life

Remember you are not alone

Take care

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AlexZaharia02 in reply to Cat33

Idk I always assume its my problem not theirs I guess their right about me I'm not worth their time

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Cat33 in reply to AlexZaharia02

No no no it's theirs they are ignorant They are not worth your time Think about it you have a condition like any other if you were deaf or had to be in a wheelchair etc who's fault would it be if they weren't kind to you ? Not yours for sure My son went from job to job but then managed to find one he loved and kept because the people were lovely to him He was the same person he was just with kinder understanding people

One thing that has built up my son's confidence has been volunteering ? Is that something you have ever thought of ? Finding something you enjoy with like minded people and telling them about you I know you will find kindness

If you need anymore reassuring it's not you then please watch last night's Britain's Got Talent with the autistic boy who did magic I was in tears it was so wonderful

Let today be the first day of a new life be proud of yourself you have talents that others don't you are you and worth so much more than you know

All the best Alex x

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AlexZaharia02 in reply to Cat33

I've tried volunteering but people were taking the piss out of me plus they disliked me there because I talked too much

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Cat33

I'm so so sorry that you were so disrespected by those horrid people Have you tried the National Autistic Society for getting support maybe joining a group ?

People were so cruel and nasty to my son because he is autistic so to hear your story makes me fume it's just not right

I know there are people out there who will give you kindness

Don't give up

I wish you loads and loads of luck x

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AlexZaharia02

I gave up already unfortunately but thanks for the advice

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